Soul mates are not a one-shot deal. Don’t panic. You didn’t miss meeting your soul mate when you skipped going to that party last weekend. Soul mates find you if you’re open to them. Besides, you don’t have one great love — you have many potential great loves.
Soul mates are about work, not play. The word “soul” opens a gigantic can of karma. While dating and light relationships are all about fun and playfulness, soul mates are all about deep emotional support, trust and faith. When you choose to go deeper with someone, you’re opening yourself up — you become emotionally vulnerable. Susan Strong, San Mateo-based astrologer and metaphysical counselor jokes, “Sometimes our soul mates become our cross to bear. You marry someone who is your soul mate and, over time, you realize you’re connected not just through chemistry, but because you are there to help each other.”
Most guys don’t think about soul mates, no matter what The Bachelor says. Strong also considers the very concept of soul mates a more feminine event. “Men don’t look for soul mates nor do they really think about meeting their soul mate. Sure, a man can be in a happy, committed, connected relationship, but he won’t necessarily tell his friends that he’s with his soul mate.” Women are more aware of a soul connection because they are more introspective in that way. Women need to feel a deeper connection with a man. That soul connection is there — but men just don’t define it.
Soul mates are not necessarily permanent. Like the ending of a fairy tale, we’re often raised to believe that a soul mate is our “happily ever after.” How old were you when realized that fairy tales don’t come true? Soul mates are certainly considered the prince charming and his princess of modern romance. Yet what happens if your romance goes sour — that soul mate turns out to be a mismatch? Of course you’re not out of luck. You move on, heal, and open up to the next soul mate. If you look at the traditional idea of soul mates, your beloved, you’ll realize that a higher force may have more than one love in store for you. To love someone and be loved is a deeply spiritual state.
I’m a big believer in Astrology. Scorpio is the worst sign for me in a man. I can feel the negative energy. I was engaged 2X to Geminis and that is one of my best signs in a partner. My best sign for a relationship in a partner is Libra. Whenever I get on extraordinarily well with a man and the chemistry is uber powerful, 9 out of 10 times, he is a Libra. The Hindu religion swears by this and Chinese Astrology is extremely accurate as well!
You can also check out numerology which I can attest to!
I’m also a great believer in destiny. If something or someone is “meant to be” it will happen no matter what path you take in life! Then you know that person IS your SOUL MATE! I’ve heard the most amazing stories from family and friends that confirm the fact that God has a plan. And we’ve all heard the saying “If You Want To Make God Laugh…. Tell Him YOUR Plans.”