Don’t Be A Doormat
Don’t be a pushover. Let him know where you stand on issue such as slavery, infidelity, lies and being taken for granted. Make it clear, be firm but don’t go on and on endlessly about it. Let your man know where your boundaries are.
Be Tender And Compassionate And Sometimes Display Tough LoveBe loving but never be scared to be tough when necessary. Never let your emotions interfere with your training. No matter how cute and cuddly he is…..he is still a dog.
Never, Ever, Tell Anyone A Secret Your Man Has Told You.
If your man finds out that you have told a secret, that he has shared with you, he will never fully trust you again. In fact, the relationship may well be doomed because it will not blossom into an open relationship where he will tell you everything. Don’t succumb to this act of betrayal
Never Contradict Or Embarrass Him in Public.
He might be acting like a jerk but he is your jerk and loyalty dictates that you don’t vent your criticism in public. If you belittle him, especially in front of his friends, he will resent and distrust you.
This is a BIG ONE. Don’t do it–save it for bed.
Don’t ever come across as a big-time feminist and EMASCULATE him. You may as well castrate him! Other men cringe at this and feel sorry for the poor dog. That is the main reason why so many baby boomer generation men marry younger women. The Gloria Steinem era unfortunately toughened up and “masculated” too many baby boomer generation women.
Never Use Things He Tells You Against Him
He will never trust and confide in you if he thinks it will ultimately become ammunition. Don’t do it.
Rein In On Erratic Emotions
Men just don’t understand wild emotional swings. Neither do dogs. Keep a lid on screaming, hysteria, and general outrageous emotional behaviour. Get yourself some Evening Primrose oil or something for those PMT times.
This is the hardest esp if you have a bad temper and you’re a little crazy!
Consider indulging some of his sexual requests, unless they are too way out or painful. You will probably enjoy it anyway but sexual trust is a big bond builder.
Learn some things from professionals in the sex business. Don’t be a prude, there is nothing wrong with loving sex. Too many married women aren’t interested in it and then wonder why they have a marriage in turmoil.
Okay, bear in mind the above rules, get a collar, a lead and a pocket of guy treats and go out and train yourself a man. And remember, everyone loves a dog!