Tip #1 – Open With A Flair.
When most men meet a woman for the first time, they usually expect her to play it safe — saying “Hi, how are you?” at the opening, and limiting physical contact to a formal (and pretty boring)handshake.
But you can blow this stereotype out of the water by giving him a hug or a peck on the cheek. Trust me, he’ll be pleasantly shocked! And you know what they say — first impressions last, and that’s definitely true in the dating game. And leaving a sizzling hot impression right at your opening will definitely keep him thinking about you long after the date is finished!
If you’re feeling a little conservative, then go ahead with the handshake — but take away the “boring” part by leaning in and touching his cheek with your own. It’s not as daring as a peck on the cheek, but it’s socially-acceptable AND unexpected at the same time.
Tip #2 – Be Easy On His Eyes.
The more a man is interested in you, the more he’s going to look into your eyes. So might as well help things along by
coming to the date looking good! It doesn’t take much to put on the right makeup and fix your hair, so don’t skimp on these. It’s good for a man’s ego when he realizes you dressed up for him!
Tip #3 – Emphasize Your Best Assets.
I remember one of my personal friends complaining to me about how men only care about looks. She told me that one
of her dates didn’t go too well simply because she showed up in a sweater and jeans! I couldn’t help but laugh like a mean witch! But afterwards, I gently revealed to her that men don’t ONLY care about looks. They don’t! But they DO notice your looks FIRST. Your personality and your “girlfriend-material” skills come later. So yes, it’s important to show up for a date looking good. You don’t have to look like a bombshell if you don’t want to, but do remember to AT LEAST emphasize your best assets. Do you have great breasts? Then perhaps reveal a little cleavage. Got great legs? Consider showing up in shorts or a
miniskirt. Have a graceful neck? Perhaps tie your hair in a ponytail to avoid hiding it. Go ahead and look at yourself in a
mirror. (Stand naked if you have to, but only if you’re the only person in the house!) Go see what your best assets are
— then head back to Google to find fashion ideas on how to emphasize them.
Tip #4 – Have An “Anything Goes” Personality.
The best dates out there are open-minded and comfortable enough to talk about anything. The more comfy you are about yourself and the things you talk about, the more comfy he’s going to feel around you, too. Sure, some topics are definite buzz-kills when discussed during a date. Such topics include politics, religion,and Jersey Shore. (LOL.)
You’ll want to avoid talking about these topics, but if they do come up, you’ll have to know enough to carry a conversation!
Remember — the first step is to appeal to his eyes by dressing up and looking your best. But after that, you’ll have to appeal to his MIND, too. And to the real men out there, here are few things sexier than a woman with an open mind, who can talk to them about anything and everything. And you CAN be this woman. Just learn to adopt an “anything goes” personality!
Tip #5 – Pretend You Have No Taboos.
I’ll have to say this — I believe women with values are some of the strongest women in society today. Women who stand for causes they believe in obviously have their priorities in line, and are POTENTIALLY the best kinds of life partners men could ever wish for. There’s just one problem — they don’t really do all that well in the dating game. And before these women become
great life partners, they’ll have to be great dates first! So ask yourself — do you have values and beliefs that you won’t budge on? Another one of my personal friends is a conservative Christian, and we sometimes clash whenever we talk about dating andrelationships. For her, sex and intimacy should NEVER come before marriage. She believes that the act is sacred, and that marriage should be kept sacred that way. That’s fine, really. There ARE men out there who believe the same things, and when they meet women who think the same way they do, they’re often set for life. The main problem is that these men are pretty few and far between. (Like they’ve been hunted to extinction or something.) So while my friend is a pretty strong woman, she’s also single and miserable. I don’t know how long she’ll accept her sad reality. But I DO know that if you’re going through the same thing she is, then you can turn things around ON YOUR VERY NEXT DATE! How? By pretending you have no taboos! If you’re leery about sex, pretend you’re not. If you’re leery about men who don’t believe the same things as you, pretend not to be. It’s basically “faking it until you make it.” The more open-minded you are about things -especially the more SENSUAL stuff, which he’s going to be looking for after you’ve satisfied his intellectual interest — the more enjoyable the date becomes!
Tip #6 – Let HIM Take The Lead.
Let HIM Take The Lead. Finally, if you want to be a great date,
you’ll have to let things run their natural course — and that’s by letting HIM take the lead. I’ve learned that the more a man takes the lead, the better the date turns out. What’s YOUR role? Simple — to make the date even MORE enjoyable, even if he’s the one taking the lead! You can do this in many ways. You can dress up. You can carry interesting
conversations, You can be sensual and give naughty, double-meaning hints. You can display the right kinds of body language that makes him think about you long after you say goodbye.
There’s so much you can do to give him a sizzling date he won’t forget his entire life!
Trust me, all of these things work! I cannot get RID of people no matter how hard I try!