For sure, it is every woman’s wish to be irresistible. But no-one wants to be irresistible to the wrong caliber of men. Yes, there are ways to make sure that only mature, wonderful men cannot resist you, the types who want to have a long-term relationship with you.
The prospect of sunny weather is so heartening…so is the idea of being an irresistible woman! You also have to practice the advice given so the tips contained therein become force of habit and second nature if not first! Being irresistible and everything that goes with it should come as natural as
breathing. Nothing is worse than fake behavior! As, I am sure that YOU yourself can smell it a mile off — well, so can men!! There are many women who are irresistible to the wrong kinds of men: if the truth be told, there are SOME MEN for whom ANY WOMAN will do! That is because their own self-worth is so low, they attract that kind of woman as well and they don’t really have high standards. That is NOT the kind of man YOU wish to be in a long-term relationship with. Declaring that you are irresistible is the first step towards becoming that way, so say it with me: “I AM IRRESISTABLE TO THE RIGHT KIND OF MAN!” Qualifying the statement just made it more specific or you would have to pick up man repellant to fend off swarms of icky men!
Are You Lugging A Lot of Baggage Around?
The past is done and it is you who is keeping it alive by ruminating over what happened. An analysis of the past does not help you in the future; it only taints it and makes it worse. What does help is taking the lessons firmly to heart and letting the incident go. Work on the anger by forgiving yourself and all the players. For all the world’s a stage, right? Remember this as well: Being angry and resentful takes away from your incredible beauty. It causes the fine lines to appear more pronounced-trust me, I have seen this in people ranging in age from 18-60!-and affects your health adversely! (Take it from someone who looks at least 10 years younger than she is and then some — moi!) 🙂
It’s All In Your Head
Ah! The mind! That interesting place that is actually a battleground where the worst wars are fought. It can be such a powerful weapon, and yet, people become victims of their minds. Thoughts are things. These wars take place between past junk, incessant mental chatter, wrong thinking, prejudice, complexes, and so many other things. To imagine that people can be using that resource to create the life they desire, the life of their dreams! Being more specific to this topic, it is in your head whether you are irresistible or not. If you go around thinking your hair isn’t that great today, or your skin is not looking its best, you invite the whole world to think just that!! Instead, if the hair isn’t great, put on your best pair of earrings, if your skin is less than perfect, wear bright lipstick. (Of course, I NEVER seem to have these issues) Case in point, Barbara Corcoran, the Real Estate Mogul wore Yellow Ribbons in her hair to make up for lost tips as a waitress for her lack of assets in the upstairs department when she waitressed as a youth. Everyone knows that waitresses with great assets get the best tips, don’t we?? And let’s face it, yellow ribbons can only do so much, can’t they?? REAL tips are earned by REAL big assets, the hard way, aren’t they??
Now read these statements and see if you agree or disagree with any of them:
“I know my boyfriend used to enjoy silly, sometimes annoying things while he was still single, such as playing video games, dressing up too casually, or spending hours watching sports on Sundays. But that’s fine. As long as he doesn’t do anything offensive or immoral, I’ll let him enjoy the things he loves doing, even if I’m already his girlfriend.” “I decide what I want in my love life. If he can’t match my emotional needs and expectations, then I’ll have to keep looking.” “I won’t be stupid if my boyfriend seems to be ruining my life. If he’s being an idiot, I’ll show him the door.” If you agree with all these statements, it is a great sign that you are on the right track to being irresistible!
Because these are all the true words of irresistible women! If you disagreed with any of them, you need to be on alert. You have to have STRONG views about your love life, and men like that. If you allow, people will walk all over you. You have just made yourself a door-mat and said “Use Me”. It has
been seen that even the best of people will wipe their muddy shoes on someone who allows them. It is like you’re almost telling them it is all right to do and you change them into ogres! That is how strong your mind is and your mouth! Yes, ATTRACTION is important and IT IS about looking good and being your best self. But that is only half of this equation. That is physical attraction. The stuff that real relationships are made of is EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION and THAT IS THE HOOK!! HOWEVER, YOU CANNOT GET TO THE EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION STAGE AT ALL UNLESS YOU HAVE THE PHYSICAL ATTRACTION FIRST! YOU MUST BE THE PHYSICAL PACKAGE BECAUSE MEN ARE VISUAL AND LOOK AT YOUR BODY FIRST, FACE SECOND AND HOW YOU MAKE THEM FEEL THIRD! FIRST THINGS FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, YOU MUST BE THEIR PHYSICAL TYPE OR ELSE YOU WILL JUST BE M(USE)D.
WITH MOI DO NOT EVER MISTAKE MY KINDNESS FOR WEAKNESS–GOT IT?? GOOD!!
Get To The Root Of It All:
Ignore The Symptoms
I am often asked for solutions to problems and I answer questions via my articles, but what I like to do is get beneath the surface because that is where the true answers lie. It is like snipping off weeds at the soil level: they will keep growing back, or trying to treat the symptoms of a disease
instead of the cause.
What I find is that a LOT of problems stem from people not valuing themselves enough. That is why they allow so many people to behave badly with them and stay in bad marriages with bad boys, for instance. That is why the empowered, irresistible women sound so different as you have seen above! This is also the reason I encourage you to empower yourself and fill yourself up. Free yourself from the past and don’t lug around the heavy stuff; make room for the beautiful and light things you so crave.
Learn what attitudes draw men to you, and what behaviours push them away. You will know how to nip problems in the bud; maybe you will not encounter any problems at all! Nipping it once and for all and finding the cure is always better than prevention! This will make YOU IRRESISTIBLE to someone new who will actually appreciate YOU instead of another(s). WINK
To the REAL happiness YOU deserve! XOXO
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