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You need a real Third Place<\/strong><\/p>\n The Third Place is a concept of Ray Oldenburg, urban sociologist and author of The Great Good Place: Cafes, Coffee Shops, Bookstores, Bars, Hair Salons, and Other Hangouts at the Heart of a Community. The First Place is your home, and the Second Place is your office. You have assigned roles and tasks at each place, and you know nearly all the people in each. The Third Place is where you meet with people you don\u2019t know that well, or maybe at all, and you exchange ideas, learn about other people, and, as Oldenburg sees it, enrich society and yourself.<\/p>\n Oldenburg published his major books on the Third Place in 1999 and 2002. Since then, the Second Place has changed quite a bit for some workers, so that it blends over into their home space, and even follows them through their phones into the traditional public interaction spaces. Your challenge, then, is to find a way to block out time where you\u2019re not at home, you\u2019re not at a screen, and you\u2019re not seeing your family or best friends. You\u2019re very consciously being social just to be social, and probably arriving back at your First or Second places a good bit happier.<\/p>\n You need to argue your ideas more<\/strong><\/p>\n As much fun as 10-person, 20-message email roundtables about the proper name for the new project can be, there\u2019s a lot of context, personality, and creativity lost when you don\u2019t argue things out in person–respectfully, but with an audience, however small, to persuade. Just ask the guy who helps design software hosting giant GitHub. In a post on product design, Kyle Neath makes the case for arguing (and designing) in person.<\/p>\n \u2026 It\u2019s not personal–it\u2019s about making our product better. If you\u2019re not forced to rationalize your product choices, who\u2019s to say you\u2019re making good decisions? Arguing with your co-workers isn\u2019t a bad thing. It\u2019s not creating a negative work environment–it\u2019s a tool to help you make good decisions. Being an empty cheerleader and telling everyone that their idea is great is harmful and short-sighted. Argue and make good decisions.<\/p>\n Neath is talking about coworkers, but he\u2019s also an advocate for hosting as many in-person meetups for GitHub customers as possible. And arguing out your case for a good idea (or shooting down a bad one) with your social group can be a great proving ground for doing it at the office.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll do better work<\/strong><\/p>\n Isaac Kohane, a Harvard Medical School researcher, studied over 35,000 peer-reviewed papers and mapped the locations of all their authors. The best studies, those that attracted the most citations from other published papers, were done by those who worked within 30 feet of one another. Jonah Lehrer wrote in the Wall Street Journal (and at Wired) about the Kohane study, and other research showing that, despite the regular assumption that online social networks would replace in-person experiences, business travel, conference attendance, and downtown city office space rentals have gone nowhere–in fact, they\u2019ve mostly increased.<\/p>\n For years now, we\u2019ve been searching for a technological cure for the inefficiencies of offline interaction. It would be so convenient, after all, if we didn\u2019t have to travel to conferences or commute to the office or meet up with friends. But those inefficiencies are necessary. We can\u2019t fix them because they aren\u2019t broken.<\/p>\n In other words, humans have evolved over many, many years to be very efficient at working with, arguing with, and talking over ideas and pursuits with people, face-to-face. Social networking tools and remote technology is nowhere near as efficient (yet). So grab your calendar and add “Talk to humans” to this week’s task list.<\/p>\n http:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/1800307\/why-in-person-socializing-is-a-mandatory-to-do-item Here\u2019s why you should get a group together, or just make it a point to walk around the office. 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