{"id":15172,"date":"2013-03-22T03:03:00","date_gmt":"2013-03-22T03:03:00","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2025-10-15T00:59:18","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T00:59:18","slug":"kimora-lee-simmons-opens-up-about-djimon-hounsou-split","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/?p=15172","title":{"rendered":"Kimora Lee Simmons Opens Up About Djimon Hounsou Split"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Four months after the reality star and actor Djimon Hounsou announced their separation, the 37-year-old mother of three spoke candidly to the U.K.&#8217;s Daily Mail about her single status and her new family dynamic.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Relationships do change throughout the course of your life, and I always think in terms of relationships changing and evolving rather than starting and stopping,&#8221; says the star, who was wed to Def Jam co-founder Russell Simmons from 1998 to 2009. (The amicable exes are parents to daughters Ming, 13, and Aoki, 10.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kimora continued, <\/strong>&#8220;Kids never go away from your life, and if you&#8217;ve been married, that person probably never goes away either. You never get rid of anyone and they never really get rid of you!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The Fabulosity: What It Is and How to Get It author admitted it&#8217;s not always easy staying on good terms with her exes, but added, &#8220;I try to do everything from the viewpoint of what&#8217;s best for my kids. I have three kids and two great dads and it&#8217;s not always easy, but you have to try to be a little selfless and we manage just fine.&#8221; (Kimora and Hounsou, 48, are parents to son Kenzo, 3.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kimora added that she finds dating especially hard because men are often intimidated by her successful career.<\/strong> &#8220;They have a lot of insecurities about who we are, what we have, what we look like, what we&#8217;ve accomplished and what we&#8217;re capable of because we&#8217;re fabulous and capable of doing so much and juggling so much every day,&#8221; the model said. &#8220;People might be mad I&#8217;m saying this, but [men] do have a lot of hang-ups. But that shouldn&#8217;t deter you ladies from being great! You don&#8217;t have to dumb down &#8212; you just have to find a clever, good, secure man. I&#8217;ve found a couple &#8212; I&#8217;ve been lucky &#8212; but it&#8217;s probably hard for everybody to find that true love of a good man.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><em>Source US Weekly<\/em><br \/>\n<!--break--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Four months after the reality star and actor Djimon Hounsou announced their separation, the 37-year-old mother of three spoke candidly<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":72448,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","footnotes":""},"categories":[1006],"tags":[2115],"class_list":["post-15172","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-relationship","tag-dating"],"magazineBlocksPostFeaturedMedia":{"thumbnail":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u-113x150.jpg","medium":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","medium_large":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","large":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","1536x1536":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","2048x2048":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-highlighted-post":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-featured-post-medium":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-featured-post-small":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u-113x90.jpg","colormag-featured-image":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-default-news":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u-113x150.jpg","colormag-featured-image-large":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-elementor-block-extra-large-thumbnail":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-elementor-grid-large-thumbnail":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-elementor-grid-small-thumbnail":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-elementor-grid-medium-large-thumbnail":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg"},"magazineBlocksPostAuthor":{"name":"Admin","avatar":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/53e6cdc30765aade0129f85e5aeb50124b1d3f5bb9a70373be31e4eb328371e0?s=96&d=mm&r=g"},"magazineBlocksPostCommentsNumber":"0","magazineBlocksPostExcerpt":"Four months after the reality star and actor Djimon Hounsou announced their separation, the 37-year-old mother of three spoke candidly","magazineBlocksPostCategories":["Dating &amp; relationships"],"magazineBlocksPostViewCount":118,"magazineBlocksPostReadTime":2,"magazine_blocks_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg",113,170,false],"medium":["https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg",113,170,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u-113x150.jpg",113,150,true]},"magazine_blocks_author":{"display_name":"Admin","author_link":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/?author=1"},"magazine_blocks_comment":0,"magazine_blocks_author_image":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/53e6cdc30765aade0129f85e5aeb50124b1d3f5bb9a70373be31e4eb328371e0?s=96&d=mm&r=g","magazine_blocks_category":"<a href=\"#\" class=\"category-link category-link-1006\">Dating &amp; relationships<\/a>","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15172","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15172"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15172\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/72448"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15172"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15172"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15172"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}