{"id":17644,"date":"2014-09-13T22:09:27","date_gmt":"2014-09-13T22:09:27","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2025-10-15T14:16:20","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T14:16:20","slug":"marisa-sung-s-rules-of-etiquette-for-the-modern-world-number-39","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/?p=17644","title":{"rendered":"Marisa Sung&#8217;s Rules of Etiquette for the Modern World Number 39"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><em>Who died and made you Grace Kelly??  Anyone who has engaged in the interview process in the United States of America, particularly in the Manhattan area knows what I am talking about!  These employers think that they are so desirable and act like they are God.  How do they know that YOU are INTERESTED in WORKING FOR THEM??  I&#8217;ve learned to interview the potential employer.  Don&#8217;t ask me if I am married because I will shoot back with do I have to deal with any members of your immediate family who are unstable??  I want a report on them, nevermind me!!  I want to know if and when you were ever sued and why!!  Where did YOU WORK before arriving at this COMPANY and for HOW LONG??  Why did YOU LEAVE??  I can be an expert at the inquisition and interrogation process as well.  How many times have you met with a potential employer and thought, gross-I don&#8217;t want to work for him or that girl is a bitch from hell, I would rather subject myself to Chinese Water Torture than report into her each day!  Get a clue, just because you are a potential employer does not make you great or desirable in any way.  Not everyone is going to want to have to deal with you! \ud83d\ude41<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Interviewing is just like dating, both parties need to be interested.  As this is the case, it would be much more appropriate to feel out whether that person is actually interested before stating to all interviewees that  position was filled.  Most of them probably didn&#8217;t want the job in the first place and are just working for the weekend!  I hope this helps and have a great day! \ud83d\ude42<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Loverboy &#8211; Working For The Weekend<\/strong><br \/>\n<iframe width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/B5SX_90vpk4\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<!--break--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Who died and made you Grace Kelly?? 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