{"id":2868,"date":"2007-09-07T05:09:47","date_gmt":"2007-09-07T05:09:47","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2007-09-07T05:09:47","modified_gmt":"2007-09-07T05:09:47","slug":"Confusion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/?p=2868","title":{"rendered":"Confusion"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Why does it happen when someone ends up falling in love usually the feeling never gets returned?\u00a0 Why do we have to put so much effort but, not be satisfied with the outcome of the results?\u00a0 So much goes through in someones life and yet, it just ends up in disappointment.\u00a0\u00a0 It is a mystery on how we hear things regarding that\u00a0 nice guys finish last and end up on top.\u00a0 Which I can say that, I am very skeptical about that saying due to the fact that it seems that all I can be good for to many of my girl friends as a friend.\u00a0 See, that is the problem too many girl friends.\u00a0 Why do I always get the shit end of the stick?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 I keep hearing, &#8221; You&#39;re such a good friend and I wish I could find a guy out there for me who will treat me as good as you.&#8221;\u00a0 Um&#8230;. Hello!!!!\u00a0 I am here just waiting for the opportunity to be the one by your side.\u00a0 To care for you, love, adore you, cherish every moment, but, still not good enough.\u00a0 Why, because for some odd reason a friend is all that I can be to that person.\u00a0 My thing is that bugs me is, they don&#39;t realize that, you say that you play with our emotions.\u00a0 That is a big slap in the face for some of us.\u00a0 Think about it.\u00a0 If you tell this type of friend that you want a guy like him or us and we are single then hello, there you go that is a slap in the face.\u00a0 It makes us seem that wee are not date worthy and it does hurt us whether we show it or not.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 We pay attention because we care, we are there because we are truly and honestly nice.\u00a0 Who knows alot about you other than your girl friends?\u00a0 Who know what makes you happy and what makes you sad?\u00a0 Who knows more about you and almost every detail about you that you wouldn&#39;t even know?\u00a0 We do!\u00a0 Simply because we care and we actually take the time to pay attention to what you have to say and want.\u00a0 Why wouldn&#39;t we be the right person for you?\u00a0 The thing is many girls say that they don&#39;t want ot ruin or hurt us.\u00a0 The thing is, we may be sensetive but, we&#39;re not that easily hurt by that.\u00a0 The only way someone can ruin it is by either, cheating,\u00a0saying hurtful things, or abuse.\u00a0 Other than that, there is no way it can damage a relationship or a friendship.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ladies, remember that the nice guy who takes the time to listen to you and drop everything he is doing just for you is the person you should look at.\u00a0 Give us a try, we know that we can make you happy.\u00a0 As a boyfriend, we will still listen to you when you have problems and we also will help you through those tough times.\u00a0 We care about you and we will never go.\u00a0 We will always be by your side<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Why does it happen when someone ends up falling in love usually the feeling never gets returned?\u00a0 Why 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