I can just hear it now\u2026.the ohhs and ahhs. How dare she go there! How dare she compare the asian man to the white man! Blasphemous! Off with her head! I see what some people post to this site. IT\u2019s a contentious issue but yeah, I am going to go there. I dated every color under the sun. Hey \u2013 I don\u2019t see color. I\u2019ve been seen as a color, object, sex toy my entire life. I\u2019m equal opportunity employment. It sure as hell works for me in the workplace today. I know I get some breaks so, I most certainly must give it back in the dating sense, right?
\nI can just hear it now\u2026.the ohhs and ahhs. How dare she go there! How dare she compare the asian man to the white man! Blasphemous! Off with her head! I see what some people post to this site. IT\u2019s a contentious issue but yeah, I am going to go there. I dated every color under the sun. Hey \u2013 I don\u2019t see color. I\u2019ve been seen as a color, object, sex toy my entire life. I\u2019m equal opportunity employment. It sure as hell works for me in the workplace today. I know I get some breaks so, I most certainly must give it back in the dating sense, right? Well, I think so.<\/i>
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\nHere goes!<\/b>
\nAt 27 years old, I\u2019ve had my share of dating experience; good, bad, ugly, infected (white and Asian)..you name it. I\u2019ll address the stereotypes, truths and my own plain experiences.
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\nWhite Man Stereotypes<\/b> \u2013 Superior, think they are marriage material to increase our social status, have Asian fetishes, think they own women, elitists, assholes, Arrogant, self-absorbed.
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\nAsian Man Stereotypes<\/b> \u2013 Lack confidence in talking to women, angry, small penises, smart, short, bottom of the barrel, proper, boring, well mannered, think they own Asian women.
\n<\/p>\nIn MY dating New York City experience:<\/h2>\n
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Cons:<\/b> think they own all women in general, arrogant, self-absorbed, treated like an object, rude<\/p>\n
Pros:<\/b> confident, makes me feel special and singled out, exciting, adventurous<\/p>\nAsian Man – <\/h3>\n
Cons:<\/b> lacking in confidence while talking to me, boring<\/p>\n
Pros:<\/b> Proper, respectful, focused, express their feelings on how much they like me on a date<\/p>\nLet me elaborate:<\/h2>\n
White Man dating experience: <\/h3>\n
First and foremost, I would like to point out that I did not mention small penis for either race. I know this was one of the first confirmations you were waiting for so I decided to spill the beans in the beginning. It is completely not true. I\u2019ve had every color under the sun, including fire crotch, hairy beast and grey matters.<\/p>\n
Let me give you ladies a little tip on penis size for ANY race. If a man\u2019s hands and feet are small don\u2019t expect a big prize behind the curtain. It\u2019ll be a battle against the bugle only if he wears pleated pants. Real men wear pleated pants. Get me drift?<\/p>\n
Being an Asian lady myself, I\u2019m definitely wined and dined by white men. It\u2019s exciting and adventurous. Sometimes it makes we wonder what a romp in the sack is like? I\u2019m usually happy to oblige but lately I\u2019ve been less than willing to jump in right away.<\/p>\n
Hot white men who usually date me are looking for a sexual adventure and dorky white me are just happy to date any female. They just think an Asian girl will give them the time of day.<\/p>\n
White men are consistent with their dating behavior, so you\u2019re left wondering a lot. Be prepared to be a rebound from a bad experience they had with a white woman or retaliation towards women in general. Some have been rejected too many times from a white woman and want to take it out on the “submissive” Asian. It could also be a trend. <\/p>\n
They\u2019re adventurous in bed, so don\u2019t expect the standard missionary. This could stem from a fetish, but I\u2019m usually not with them long enough to figure it out. White men are into toys and fulfilling their fantasies. <\/p>\n
I\u2019ve found that dating Asian men over the years has been slowly changing. I\u2019ve noticed more confidence in each new Asian man I hang out with. Dating an Asian man is comforting, warm and secure.<\/p>\n
Also, Asian men think I\u2019m their property and that it should be a given that I will go out with them, whether or not I\u2019m attracted to them. They are much more respectful on a date than a white man. They talk about other things besides sex. They are aggressive in their pursuit for a next date. They have a lot to offer financially. <\/p>\n
The “Asian small penis size” stereotype is just that, a stereotype. It\u2019s not true as I explained above. The body hair is great, minimal. <\/p>\n
None of these dates have led to serious relationships. It\u2019s either been from one extreme or the other, too casual or too desperate! Dating in New York City has its own issues.<\/p>\n
White men are not greater than Asian Men, and Asian Men are not greater than White men. They both have their advantages and disadvantages. It just depends on your taste and tolerance. If you\u2019re young, you will probably be happy playing around with a white man and appreciate an Asian man as you mature, like a fine wine.<\/p>\n
My advice to American women who are attracted to an Asian Man or a White Man is to just go for it with an open mind. There are happy Asian couples and happy Asian white couples. I wanted to share my opinions on an equal opportunity, serial dater in NYC.<\/p>\n
Feel free to crucify me below or you can always email me at nancy@asiancemagazine.com<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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