{"id":6711,"date":"2010-11-20T20:11:38","date_gmt":"2010-11-20T20:11:38","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2010-11-20T20:11:38","modified_gmt":"2010-11-20T20:11:38","slug":"Asking-Out-Asian-American-Girls","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/?p=6711","title":{"rendered":"Asking Out Asian American Girls"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Where I live, there aren&#8217;t a large amount of Asian girls, but I do see many at my university, and of course, anytime I stop by my favorite Asian restaurants or grocers. This raises a question.<\/p>\n<p>The places I frequent (school, market, restaurants) have caused me to develop a decently large circle of acquaintances (most of which like me), therefore I know many attractive girls who I wouldn&#8217;t mind chatting with or getting to know better. However, since the Asian girls that I meet are (typically) in places like their workplace or our school, I wonder about how asking them out could possibly affect our future contact if she&#8217;s not interested (I don&#8217;t want it to be awkward for either of us). Additionally, I don&#8217;t want to come across as some guy who&#8217;s just trying to &#8220;bag&#8221; her. I realize that women in general who work in restaurants are hit on often, and that Asian girls are no exception. I wonder mainly how is this overcome with sincerity, and is that even possible? Do most Asian girls who work with their family&#8217;s restaurant business get tired of customers asking them out? Or do they generally try to just identify the nice, sincere types and weed out the rest?<\/p>\n<p>Or am I thinking too hard?<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s usually the case. 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