{"id":7340,"date":"2011-01-22T03:01:23","date_gmt":"2011-01-22T03:01:23","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2025-10-15T00:59:22","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T00:59:22","slug":"seducing-the-male-brain","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/?p=7340","title":{"rendered":"Seducing The Male Brain"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>WHAT WE THINK: Many of us think that men should love us &#8220;for who we are.&#8221; Since it&#8217;s his job to find us and carry the<br \/>\nrelationship for us, we shouldn&#8217;t really do much to make the relationship work.  He should discover us for the rare gems<br \/>\nthat we really are&#8230; right?<\/p>\n<p>Well, if that were the case, then how come so many of us are still single?  Looks like just sitting there, waiting<br \/>\nto be found and rescued, isn&#8217;t working as well as it did in the fairy tales!<\/p>\n<p><strong>WHAT MEN THINK: When it comes to &#8220;high-maintenance&#8221; women &#8212; that is,  women who expect to be pampered and treated like queens by the men in their lives &#8212; men tend to leave them well<br \/>\nalone.<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>They know these women are too much trouble to keep happy!<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Men know that no matter what a &#8220;rare gem&#8221; you are, there are still women out there who DON&#8217;T sit around and wait for<br \/>\nnothing.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, these strong, confident, independent women go out, conquer the world, and make themselves available.<\/p>\n<p>Now THESE are the kinds of women the real men look for &#8212; low-maintenance, flirty, and TONS of fun to be with!<\/p>\n<p><strong>WHAT TO DO: Stop thinking of yourself as a princess, and stop waiting to be &#8220;rescued.&#8221;<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a reason they&#8217;re called &#8220;fairy tales,&#8221; after all &#8212; they simply don&#8217;t happen in the real world!<\/p>\n<p>Try to imagine your ideal man, no matter how outrageous your &#8220;ideal man&#8221; might be. Then imagine the kind of woman who would be worthy to stand by his side.<\/p>\n<p>THAT&#8217;S your goal &#8212; to become a woman of that quality.  Why don&#8217;t you start today?  WHAT WE THINK: Lastly, we tend to think<br \/>\nthat sex makes the relationship stronger.<\/p>\n<p><strong>After all, we DO feel an intense connection with him whenever we make love.  Surely, if we give in to a new guy&#8217;s wishes and bring things to the bedroom right after the first date, he&#8217;s going to like us too, right?  Naturally, this isn&#8217;t the case &#8212; a LOT of men out there have sex with a woman early in the relationship, only to never call her up again after that.<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If that&#8217;s happened to you before, then you&#8217;re probably familiar with this &#8220;jump-and-dump&#8221; tactic!<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>WHAT MEN THINK: Sex is sex.<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s not something that makes them love the woman more, especially when the sex happens early in the relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When that&#8217;s the case, it&#8217;s nothing more than a one-night-stand &#8212; perhaps one of the dating game&#8217;s favorite pastimes.<br \/>\nWhat&#8217;s more, men don&#8217;t feel the same connection women do after sex.<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In fact, they feel the opposite &#8212; they feel the need for privacy.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why, more often than you&#8217;d like, the men you have sex with end up sleeping facing away from you, snoring blissfully!<\/p>\n<p><strong>WHAT TO DO: Don&#8217;t rush things into the bedroom, because it WON&#8217;T strengthen the relationship no matter how strongly you<br \/>\nfeel for him!<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>You&#8217;ll need to bite back the temptation and let the relationship&#8217;s emotional foundation &#8212; the LOVE &#8212; form first!<\/p>\n<p><strong>I don&#8217;t want to give a hard-and-fast rule about how long you&#8217;ll have to wait before having sex, but based on my experiences (and the experiences of many of my friends), 3-6 months seems to be the &#8220;sweet spot.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wait that long before having sex, and your relationship will have a MUCH better chance of standing the test of time!<\/p>\n<p>There are many more differences between the minds of men and women, particularly when it comes to dating and<br \/>\nrelationships.  Wouldn&#8217;t it be great if you knew ALL the<br \/>\ndifferences &#8212; that way there wouldn&#8217;t be any doubts, any misconceptions, and any misconception between you?<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s right &#8212; when you know EXACTLY how a man&#8217;s brain works, the more easily you&#8217;ll SEDUCE it.  And the more easily you seduce the male brain, the more easily you&#8217;ll take CONTROL of your destiny together!<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Study animal psychology&#8211;there is a wealth of information there!<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<!--break--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>WHAT WE THINK: Many of us think that men should love us &#8220;for who we are.&#8221; Since it&#8217;s his job<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1213,"featured_media":72448,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","footnotes":""},"categories":[1006],"tags":[2115],"class_list":["post-7340","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-relationship","tag-dating"],"magazineBlocksPostFeaturedMedia":{"thumbnail":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u-113x150.jpg","medium":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","medium_large":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","large":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","1536x1536":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","2048x2048":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-highlighted-post":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-featured-post-medium":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-featured-post-small":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u-113x90.jpg","colormag-featured-image":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-default-news":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u-113x150.jpg","colormag-featured-image-large":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-elementor-block-extra-large-thumbnail":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-elementor-grid-large-thumbnail":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-elementor-grid-small-thumbnail":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg","colormag-elementor-grid-medium-large-thumbnail":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg"},"magazineBlocksPostAuthor":{"name":"Joshua","avatar":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/62ee23f8f40307578d1f284ecd823d77f32da8ea35541e7dbdafeb5da1a4e877?s=96&d=mm&r=g"},"magazineBlocksPostCommentsNumber":"0","magazineBlocksPostExcerpt":"WHAT WE THINK: Many of us think that men should love us &#8220;for who we are.&#8221; Since it&#8217;s his job","magazineBlocksPostCategories":["Dating &amp; relationships"],"magazineBlocksPostViewCount":142,"magazineBlocksPostReadTime":4,"magazine_blocks_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg",113,170,false],"medium":["https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u.jpg",113,170,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/u-113x150.jpg",113,150,true]},"magazine_blocks_author":{"display_name":"Joshua","author_link":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/?author=1213"},"magazine_blocks_comment":0,"magazine_blocks_author_image":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/62ee23f8f40307578d1f284ecd823d77f32da8ea35541e7dbdafeb5da1a4e877?s=96&d=mm&r=g","magazine_blocks_category":"<a href=\"#\" class=\"category-link category-link-1006\">Dating &amp; relationships<\/a>","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7340","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1213"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7340"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7340\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/72448"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7340"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7340"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiancemagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7340"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}