Fast and Loose dating: Empowered or frowned upon?

Hello Reader!

Thanks for your previous comments which I was just took me a little while to think and respond; I know that is not the same as I would try to doing it all myself, but you was wrote me so much than I would need otherwise too long.

I understand everyone’s hopes and dreams to find a serious love, which is not only an imagination of that from a lot of mails or a lot of talk at phone, because that all is only a too small basic to build really trust and to let fall in love really without too high risks. And the internet is a good first meeting-place, but also the mostly dangerous place for all – not only for relationships, but for business and other things too.
And the live is short, and time is money, and as well as important it is to have time enough to know each other step by step more better, as well as needs a common realistic perspective too.

And because it is so difficult to find a person which is authentic, trustful, with any common interests, which a comparable intellectually and emotional intelligence and a good character, everybody must take care for himself/herself, and must try to do the best – and that is really a hard working – process. A process which nobody know at the start if all can goes well, and which everybody makes mistakes at his life, but if he/she is able to learn from mistakes, and if he/she is mature enough to see himself/herself realistic and to know what he/she want from his/her life and then he/she has a chance to get something what he/she need, to make sure some of the life dreams comes through. But without love, and without the warm heart from others, all is nothing and you could not be really happy.

Ok, just now you are for me an interesting people – like good men and women, which has any good qualities and which given us new imaginations and dreams. But to take care each other needs to check if a common dream has a basic of realistic chance or not. And therefore we must not only think how early we can make sure a real meeting, we must much more think about what would be if we would married and after than how is the life?

Maybe if we check that we see it gives questions and problems which are much big and then we must check how we can solve it, and if the future for both can be not ever like the heaven, but ever acceptable and it means respectful, healthy, without any aggressiveness, loyal, without psycho dramatic and hysteric disasters.

And we must preparing and check all rational.

Naturally we can’t say if we both would be compatible to someone well now, but because she/he a person which has a good and complex personality, which is very open, and which is able to learn new things and to communicate his/her own ideas right, maybe us would have a chance to build a common future. Naturally it would be a future with other aspects and other reality, if you would build a future with a women-men between 35 and 45, but we could firstly maybe meet each other and see what says our soul, and how is our compatibility from our head, and last but not least what can we given and change each other for ideas, for a fulfilled sex, for a good basis of respect and an imagination from a relationship which is trust for both and which is a relationship with much emotions, with much tolerance and with a great but interesting challenge for both.