When Your Boyfriend “Thinks” He’s Over His Ex
“I’ve just been too lazy to take it down,” was his excuse.
For months now she has been staring blatantly at you in the face almost mockingly thinking, “Ha! Ha! Ha! I’m up here and you’re not!” She had the perfect faux tan and long black hair. Her eye makeup was overly done which you could only find on porn stars. She had an athletic build and his arm around her. It was obvious who she was in that picture frame- the ex-girlfriend.
The first time I saw it I had my suspicions but didn’t say anything. I decided to bite my tongue and wait.“I’ve just been too lazy to take it down,” was his excuse.
For months now she has been staring blatantly at you in the face almost mockingly thinking, “Ha! Ha! Ha! I’m up here and you’re not!” She had the perfect faux tan and long black hair. Her eye makeup was overly done which you could only find on porn stars. She had an athletic build and his arm around her. It was obvious who she was in that picture frame- the ex-girlfriend.
The first time I saw it I had my suspicions but didn’t say anything. I decided to bite my tongue and wait. Weeks later it was still hanging up on his wall, taunting me. Who is this girl that he felt was significant enough to be framed on his wall? Really, I’m not all that jealous.
That’s a lie. I actually am.
“Who’s the girl in the picture?” I unashamedly asked.
“That’s just my ex-girlfriend” he responded oh so nonchalantly.
Ya, that’s what I thought.
Surely, there’s still a spark that burns between them but they broke up for a good reason. So why is she still hanging around like yesterday’s garbage?
It’s been a year and a half since the break up. You would think by now the picture would have come down already. The only thing worse than an ex girlfriend is an ex girlfriend who is still in the picture- literally. Who would want to be constantly reminded of a failed relationship? I’ll tell you- a masochist that’s who. Or if you’re a hopeless romantic, like I’m not, it could be possible that he’s still hung up on her.
So your boyfriend “thinks” he’s over his ex-girlfriend yet you’re not quite convinced, especially with the accumulating evidence that you keep finding. It starts with the random pictures hidden in the drawer that you accidentally find or an email you stumble upon. You come across really unusual things that you know just shouldn’t belong there such as her class schedule, a journal that she kept for him, old cards, or love notes. There are even some of her clothes hidden in the back of his drawer. It’s one thing to keep memorabilia stashed away in a box up in your closet, under your bed, or even buried somewhere in your back yard. It’s another thing to have it lying around your apartment where it’s visible for your current girlfriend to see. To make matters worse “the ex” is still calling on a weekly basis. What’s more disturbing is that he’s still taking her phone calls. What’s even weirder is that all he does is talk about how much he hates talking to her. It doesn’t make sense.
“If you don’t want to talk to her then why do you insist on picking up her calls? It just gives her another reason to call and for you to pick up. You’re just provoking her,” I argued.
“Because we’re friends and if I don’t pick up she’ll continue to call until I do,” he responded.
Or so he says.
“So don’t pick up.” It’s that simple.
It’s easy to pull the “we’re just good friends” card. Surely, there’s still a spark that burns between them but they broke up for a good reason. So why is she still hanging around like yesterday’s garbage? Bitter. Maybe. On the one hand, she’s still got her claws into him, and is smugly letting you know that they have a history together. Meanwhile, there he is in the middle, getting his ego massaged on both sides.
I would argue understandably that his behavior might be some cause for concern. Who wouldn’t feel slightly awkward if their significant other talked to their ex regularly? Most guys cut friendships with their exes down to a casual acquaintance or to none at all. They may catch up from time to time and keep in touch. They do not, however, spend most of their time away from their girlfriend with their ex. In his situation he dumped her because it wasn’t working out between them. For all we know it could have been due to an excruciating long distance relationship, bad living situations, an abnormal growth of body hair, or an unwanted distinct odor. It’s not because he stopped loving her.
As much as I wanted him to take it down, I really had no right to tell him what to do. It’s too soon to come off as the insanely, green-eyed girlfriend.
Let’s face it. Women have enough insecurities of their own without having to compete with the ex girlfriend. No one wants to seem like the jealous, possessive type. Though some of us can hide it better than others. It’s difficult to be the mature girlfriend and pretend that everything is peachy keen when your boyfriend wants to keep in touch with his ex. So what’s your next alternative? Simple. Confront the bitch and tell her to back off by leaving her threatening messages on MySpace. Not exactly the best approach but certainly the most effective. Then again you can always get over it and accept his past.
Remember, though they may appear close, she is his ex-girlfriend for a reason. Something went wrong. Yes, she has everything you don’t except for one thing, the man in question.
Months later we find ourselves in our usual Sunday routine- sitting on the couch watching really bad movies that I so happen to enjoy. I look up and there she is. Still perfectly framed on his wall. Untouched.
“Her picture is still up on your wall,” I said without refraining from the TV.
“Would you like me to take it down?” he asked as his eyes were glued to the TV as well.
“No. Don’t do it on my account. You can keep it up there if you please. Who am I to tell you who to put up on your wall (your girlfriend, that’s who)?” I respond sarcastically. As much as I wanted him to take it down, I really had no right to tell him what to do. It’s too soon to come off as the insanely, green-eyed girlfriend.
He gets up from the couch and approaches the picture frame. “How about this? I won’t do it for you. I won’t do it for me. I’ll do it for us.”
And down she went.
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I think that was a good thing for you to do! I would be the same way if my boyfriend and I were in the same situation. You come off to be a very qwerky and spunk type of personality. Keep writing about your experiences because they amuse me and they are something that I can easily relate to! Big fan!
I said nothing to my boyfriend even though she called all hours of the night. Well he slept with her and told me I was not supose to find out. I will never allow my boyfriend to stay in contact with an ex like this again. I will walk away then and there. He told me he couldn’t stand her that she was dating someone else. Well obviously not.
PLEASE write more. In the exact same situation. It drives me insane and is so hard to walk that line between being bossy girlfriend who is out of place and being girlfriend who wants her boyfriend’s ex out of my life. I’m tired of feeling like there are three people in this relationship.
When my boyfriend moved in with me, so did his collection of naked pictures of his ex girlfriend. I knew he had them, and asked him to get rid of them, but he didn’t. I can’t get the image of her red hair and breasts out of my mind–they are literally burned into my retinas. He said he wanted to get rid of them on his own, but still did not. I finally lost it and told him they had to go–along with all the other stuff connected to her–and it had been over 4 years since they broke up! Or rather, she dumped him. He doesn’t understand why it bothers me so much–or does, and thinks it’s a battle of wills. It’s not–I want to let it go, but he refuses to help,, which only feeds my insecurities. Girls, also let that be a lesson to you if you ever pose nude for a guy, remember that those pics could wind up ANYWHERE!
Sara’s comments hit home to me as same thing is going on here. I found pics of his ex still in frames starring up at me when I opened one of his drawers to get a pair of sox. When we decided to move in together, there she still was in the drawer I was helping him pack up and I told him she wasn’t coming with us to the new house..she did. I decided to take matters into my own hand and put here where she belonged..the trash. She dumped him bad the year b4 so why would he want to keep her memory alive everytime he opened that drawer…not to mention every card and love note she wrote to him. They still have contact even though I asked him to stop. He still keeps her in his email and phone contacts. He says it’s to keep up with what her girls (from her ex) are up to but I know better. He even sends her pictures that he took when we went on vacation (not of me of course). I am ready to give him an ultimatum since I am the one who has to pick up the pieces when things in his life are bad. I can’t play 2nd fiddle to a fantasy…
My boyfriend admitted he is not over his ex, who dumped him 7 years ago!!!! He offered to move out if I could not get over it. He has been calling me by her name before, during, after and not even close to sex. I tolerated it for a while and decided I am jealous (which I tend to be bu fighting it for all it’s worth- very bad emotion).
Then came the “I really like ……… (basically, a body type and looks the complete opposite of me.)
OK,enough now. We talked and the bottom line is he “can’t help himself” and he will look for another place if that is what I want. He apologizes for hurting me, never his intention. Hell, no that’s not what I want. He cares about me but will never again love like he loved her. But he is happier with me than he has been in the last five years, he says.
Well, I know where I stand at this moment, but do not trust our future together. I am over my past and he is not. As far as I am concerned he refuses to get over it. He says he can’t always control his brain and what comes out of his mouth. OK, I can understand it but don’t know how I can live with it.
im going tru this right now. We live not so close, and dont see each other that often. With the ex back, this increases my insecurities, i already had them, and now, wow, its too much.
If he fails, how am i going to know?
but it helped me somehow to read it, thans for the article.
…that it’s not just me who’s experienced that exact situation. (Apart from I burned the picture afterward hahaha!) Great article.
For anyone who’s going through the same thing, i.e endless telephone calls with the ex etc, basically tell him “it’s either me or her.” Result: my boyfriend no longer speaks to his ex 🙂
For anyone who’s going through the same thing, i.e endless telephone calls with the ex etc, basically tell him “it’s either me or her.” Result: my boyfriend no longer speaks to his ex 🙂
Nice to know I’m not acting crazy! With my ex’s that treated me badly, I have no desire to speak to them. But the crazy girl cheated on him time and time again. Still he answers her call when she calls to “catch up” .. She is sneaking and only calling to see if we have broken up. But I can’t get him to understand that. He is half way moved in. Before all the rest of the stuff comes I’d like to know she isn’t a 3rd wheel in out relationship.
My situation is that I have been dating my b/f for almost a 1 1/2 yrs. His old g/f he dated for only 5 months. A few weeks ago I caught him lieing to me and saw her car at his place. I confronted him on it and told him i think a breakup with him and me is for the best. I want a guy who loves me and only me. After a week he called asking me to take him back..said he told his ex g/f he could not do this anymore. He said it’s me he really loves and wants in his life. So we started to work on the relationship. I will say he has been showing me lots of love and affection..does anythiing for me. BUT I still see texts from her many times a day every day, which leads me to believe he never told her anything. BUT she also received emails from me stating that we are back again and he wants me in his life. But she still contacts him. I did confront him on the text. I told him I was wrong to look at it but why in the world is she still contacting him.
He look flustered and said to me “i will handle it”. Not sure what the hell that means but I guess I will find out. I told him I am trying hard to rebuild the trust and I will not go thru this again…the next time there will be no turning back. I told him he needs to tell her to F* off or I will. Guess I will see what happens now.
its so good to know that im not the only person experiencing this. my boyfriend and i have been dating for quite a while now. everything was like a fairytale. when i thought our relationship couldnt get better, it got worse. his ex saw that he moved on and began calling him. she messages and comments him. we have an open relationship and so i explain my feelings about the situation. he seems to avoid her but doesnt take to heart what i’ve said. hes a great guy but i know he still thinks ‘what if’ when it comes to her…
Reading though these comments I can relate to them all. I am with a guy who is amazing. In many ways he is amazing—in fact, it is amazing to me that he is sooo happy with me but yet, he keeps in contact with all these internet whores, has file folders of naked pictures of them….pics they have even sent him with their significant others-(im talking like sex pics…basically porn) Let it be known I have no problem with porn—just i have a problem with knowing the ppl he’s getting pics of…having relations with them—
–we have talked about it and he has confessed that he has many many pictures of women through the years basically b/c all he ever does is sit on the computer and ask for pictures from them. Whether he was lonely then–or maybe i just don’t know enough about him and he is just a loser. I suppose it is a fantasy for the women also. I saw some of the pictures, most of them are hideous! I mean I was actually offended seeing how gross half these women are! I think its disrespectful that my bf still has these damn pictures, and you know what Im gonna delete them all when i get the chance since he hasn’t then—if he wants to treat someone with no respect, he can do it with someone else. Screw that. You all deserve someone who’s gonna treat you like they love care about you—someone that loves and cares about you does not go and reflect upon old pictures of ex girlfriends or seek out new skanky pics. They should be showing you all that kind of attention. If he is meant to be with you perhaps it was to teach you something. And Im not jealous…im actually just sad that I am so easily fooled by sleazy bums and losers and apparently everyone ive ever met is an jerk. Oh well my search goes on for someone decent.
Your comment is hysterical. You go from loving to your boyfriend to realizing he is sleazy..My advice: get rid of the bum! He is fantazing maybe with you but definitely elsewhere..Get rid of the bum!
June – He’ll do it with the next one too..It’s not you..You picked a tool…A loser..At least you found out now. He is so insecure and having all these naked pictures around makes him feel good. That he is a wanted man..He’ll be a problem down the road..Get rid of the tool. Plus he might be carrying something,,,if you know what I mean!
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Yah, you are right. I mean, its just not how I would treat someone. I love my boyfriend, and I was truly shocked at finding these pictures, I thought he got rid of them, on his own. Me-I don’t want to look at pictures of someone else, when I have a real-live bf who I care about and wouldn’t be with if I didn’t want to love and be turned on by–so I suppose I just am not enough for him. We can only control ourselves. Anyway, looking at my bf’s pics only invoke the desire to clean in me, like scrub away dirt and ocd things in my apartment until i feel better–oh yeah and clean my bf out of my life too! —after a physical reaction of “ewah….for real???? these ppl make me never wanna have sex again” I def relate to whoever said that pictures they saw of their bf’s stash are burned into their memories. Sadly, when he realizes what he lost he will only have pictures to jack off to….which will pretty much be more of the same for him.
Please get rid of your boyfriend. He is a loser and always will be. Once a cheat, always a cheat. I am serious! Do not believe his lies that he has changed. He is comfortable with being a liar. He is an admitted cheat. Every girl deserves a man who loves and respects her. Why are you settling for less? So you are not alone? It’s alot better than worrying about his nonsense which I’m sure you do more than he is worth. Get rid of him and have a nice life! A nice boy will come along who will treat you well. You just have to set the boundaries of how you expect to be treated! That’s my experienced advice. Anyone else?
I have been with my boyfriend for almost a little over a year. When I met him, he was everything I wanted. He is a great guy and has a lot of good qualities. Unfortunately, over the months I found so many things that dissapointed me! I found a box full of pictures of his ex girlfriend and her son, things that she bought him, he even kept her old lip gloss! I was hurt when I saw all of these things because I am in his life now but it feels like I will never measure up to her. She used to take him to Vegas on the weekends and buy his shoes, clothes, watches! Well, they broke up about a year and a half ago. I never really did anything about it but more more things kept coming up. Everytime he drinks, he talks about her and it makes me so mad! I even found naked pictures in his phone of other girls as well. I love his so much but I can’t be with someone that is still in love with their ex and can’t get over her! The one good thing about it is that he doesn’t keep in contact with her because she actually broke up with him because he was cheating on her! He said he has changed since then and that he doesn’t want to be like that anymore but I dont know if I can trust him and the fact that he is still in love with his ex really drives me crazy! can someone offer me good advice as to what I should do?
It really is nice to see that i am not the only one with this type of problem. I have been dating this guy for 2 years now … he is everything a girl could want. Then there is the “ex” factor. For a while it wasnt an issue. She was away, working overseas and about to get married. Now, engagement is off and she is moved back home. When she moved away to work/study overseas, they were dating and he was in love with her. After awhile he wanted to surprise her with a visit and she tells him ‘dont bother, i met some one’. So, now back to present day, her engagement is off and she wants to meet up and just tell him how awful she feels about what she did to him. They meet and talk. He didnt tell me exactly what they spoke about and i am not sure i want to know. I asked if he still has feeling and he said NO and that i have nothing to worry about. He is not a cheater, he never cheated. If anyting, she is the one that cheated on him. in any event, her bday is coming up and she invites him to her bday party. I thought i was gonna vomit when i heard this. To make it worse, he is considering goinh (with me ofcourse). Still, this doesnt feel right and i dont watnt to keep bringing this up cause he will start thinking i am nagging … and i dont watnt to be that type of girflriend.
If he cared about you and only you, he would take your feelings into consideration and not go or speak with her. Him telling you that you are nagging is his way to make your current relationship with him look like it’s your faulty he wants to stray. He definitely still has feelings for her. I would let him go and figure things out himself. If it’s meant to be, he’ll come back to you!
i met my bf way back when i was totally hung up over this pathetic excuse of a man — anyway then it had seem to the whole world that my bf was the sad disposable rebound guy especially considering the fact that he is the asshole’s good friend. It seemed that they thought i was up to revenge and dating the best friend was the ultimate kill. however it never even crossed me that i was going to hurt the asshole’s feelings (assholes have feelings?) it just so happens that my bf was there when i needed a shoulder to cry on and he was the one that pulled me up and rescued me from eternal misery that would have eventually lead me to depression (i had it bad). i love him so much for that and never saw it as using him or anything of that sort. but oh dear.. i did not know what i had on my plate. my bf has issues with his ex — unsettled issues i guess, cos he’s been with her for almost three years in an on/off relationship. he tells me that he cannot stand her and hates her but stayed coz he felt sorry for her. i’m not really buying his story. i mean, how can you stay with someone u cannot stand for almost 3yrs ? it sounds like bs to me. and after much ehem ‘investigation’ i’ve found his ex to be a decent well mannered person with a good sense of humour, intelligent, rich and to top it all of, she’s a natural beauty. it seems like she has everything i don’t. how do you compete with that? it bothers me that to have broken up with such a person, he hooks up with something even less and he’s going to realize that soon and leave. i cannot be with him without thinking about this.. i even dream about it sometimes, in my dream both of them were laughing at me and how much of a mess i am. it hurts so bad deep down but then i feel terribly silly thinking about it because this is just a mere theory i formulated and might not even be true.. but the thoughts are seeded deep in my head and oftenly nurtured, now it’s growing and it gets worse and all i wanna do is piss off at my bf coz i feel like there’s a vital piece of information missing between us and i’m forever walking with a big fat bloody question mark on my big fat head. i bring it up sometimes but he never comes up with satisfying answers and it adds to my suspicions and i think i’m going to combust now. aaaaa. i need help. i really need somebody to talk to abt this. but i don’t wanna feel like a crazy jealous gf doing it so i’m short of ideas to whom i am gonna rant this out to. this seems like a good idea.. ok i’m too depressed to continue. ladies pls respond to this.. it would make my year. please..
thank you. maybe i should be a lesbian. hmmmm. lol. bye
Hi Gina,
I just started writing a dating column here and I could not help but see your comment. So let me get this straight. You are freaking out because your bf once dated a great girl who has everything going for her? Is he still talking to her? He’s your boyfriend? Not a rebound hookup. Am I correct?
when i just began dating my boyfriend of 3 yrs…i was told much to the same tune that he broke up with his ex-girlfriend some nine months ago..repeatedly there was evidence dat he never stopped speaking to his ex..though on being asked he’d lie to my face about it…6 months into our relationship there wur her pictures in his computer…her gifts still lying around at his place..and her mails in his mailbox..i casually once asked him to maybe move her stuff out from his place..not only did he hesitate and not do so…he tried to tell me dat i mustnt be bothered abt things dat he dint actually value and wur just lying arnd…if he dint value her thngs why refuse to get rid of it?..so gina i totally understand ur sentiments and wish we could talk
Last weekend, my boyfriend and I went to a house party with all of our good friends for a birthday party. One of the girls there was my boyfriend’s ex of 2 years. They are still really good friends, even though they split because she cheated on him more than once.
As you can probably tell by that, my boyfriend has a heart of gold and wouldn’t intentionally hurt a fly…but sometimes you wish you could slap him round the face for being too nice and forgiving.
Anyway at the party we were doing our own things, talking to different people (we are both social butterflies) and having a great time. I walked into the kitchen to find him and his ex stood side by side chatting to a couple of others. There was a moment where they laughed, he hugged her and then kissed her on a the head. That was fine, I can deal with that level of intimacy between them. However something compelled me to carry on watching the pair of them.
I trusted him completely, and I don’t know why I had to watch but I couldn’t help it. Next thing I know his hand was stroking the bottom of her back. This was when my heart started beating faster and I felt glued to the spot. His hand suddenly, unexpectedly, stroked over her bum and back up to her lower back. I didn’t know what to do…I couldn’t move and I wanted to scream but couldn’t. I couldn’t stop watching. The both of them were oblivious to me stood there.
The same thing happened another 3 times before I grabbed my best friend (the girlfriend of his best mate) and got her to confirm that I wasn’t seeing things or going crazy. When she first looked, she just said ‘he’s just rolling a cigarette, doesn’t look like much’, but i promised her that once finished rolling his hand would return the exactly the same place. In my books, this kind of intimate stroking should be exclusively kept within a relationship unless you’re single.
I was right, as I predicted his left hand resumed stoking her lower back. The funny thing is, his ex is also my friend, and to my suprise she didn’t even flinch or even react to what he was doing which made me think that she has absolutely no respect for me and even less for herself. As soon as my friend witnessed what was going on she ordered me to go to the bathroom, and as I was walking off i heard ‘OI YOU, COME WITH ME RIGHT NOW!’.
As I came out of the bathroom he was there waiting. ‘What’s up babe?’…they were his first words, but I couldn’t answer, just looking at him made me want to throw up. Finally I spat out ‘DON’T YOU DARE TOUCH UP YOUR EX IN FRONT OF ME!’. His expression was confused and he replied ‘I wasn’t touching her up babe, you know me and her are close, and you know she’s going through a bad time at the moment. I was just trying to comfort her’. I had to walk away. This answer from him is exactly what I expected and is what I mean by too nice…but what he had done was inexcusable and if he thought I was taking that bullshit, he had another thing coming.
His best friend came over and asked to speak to him outside. I was so angry. My heart was beating so fast I thought it was going to come right out of my chest. Then a little later, his best friend pulled me aside. He said that he thought my boyfriend genuinely wasn’t doing it in a malicious way, and assured me that he’d had a massive go at him for me. But this wasn’t enough for me to forgive him. Then my boyfriend insisted on taking me home so we could work things out. However the idea of getting drunk with my best friend appealled to me much more.
Once I was feeling a little more tipsy, as most people do, I found it so much easier to say exactly what I thought. He kept telling me that he was in love with me (something he finds very hard to say), that i was the only one for him and that he could never think of his ex in anyway but a friend because of what she did to him. That just made me think that although he would never get back with her because of what she did to him, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s over her.
Since that night he has made it up to me in every way possible (cooking for me, buying me presents, etc etc) and has promised not to be that intimate with anyone except for me (and I believe that he won’t, because he is always true to his word). But I can’t stop thinking about it. Every time what happened that night pops into my head, I feel sick again and it’s eating away at my self confidence. I used to trust him completely, but now I find myself doubting him, even when he says he loves me.
I have done my best to forgive him and I think I’ve finally done so, but I can’t forget it…not one bit. What should I do?
Catherine, I completely understand where you’re coming from. Dealing with your boyfriend’s ex is never easy. And as secure you may feel about yourself and your relationship, exes are always sensitive subject to discuss. You deserve more credit than you give yourself. I would have lost it from the moment they made any physical contact- brush against the hand, shoulders touching, etc. But, obviously, I’m a jealous person by nature. Hey, love will make you do crazy things, or maybe that’s just jealousy. Confronting him about your feelings (and his) for his ex was the way to go. You need to have an honest talk about this, even if it means having to ask the hard questions- is he still ” in love” her? Will he continue to see her? What kind of relationship does he have with her? And most importantly, can you continue to trust him? I cannot stress enough how trust is so important in a relationship. It’s okay to have your doubts. We’re only human. But if at the end of the day, all you want is to be with the one you love, then your trust for him will slowly build into something solid (so long as he doesn’t fuck up on the way to gaining your trust). You’re boyfriend would be a fool to cheat on you with his ex-girlfriend after what she did to him. If that were the case, he never deserved you at all. Trust your feelings. And as cliche and oh-so-corny as it sounds, listen to your heart. I hope you crazy kids work it out!
I just found out, through snooping, that my bf has been e-mailing his ex and that she’s relying on him for emotional support because she’s going through a divorce and is having money problems, etc. She has a little girl that is not his. He decided to buy her a coat. He said how much he misses her and the little girl and wishes the best for them. Oh, he also encouraged her to call if ever she wants to talk.
I lost it. Gifts? I miss you and Darla? Call me whenver you want to talk? He says they didn’t break up as enemies and he cares for her as a friend. AND he said I got her a coat not a gift. We’re not trying to rekindle anything. My question, if it was so innocent why didn’t he tell me? He said he knew I wouldn’t be okay with it.
I’m not. He’s way too involved in her issues. It’s not like she doesn’t have other friends here. She has a job. BUT it doesn’t pay well, and she can barely afford stuff so I was being a friend.
Am I crazy or is this a completely innappropriate relationship with his ex. Her problems aren’t his. It’s not his job to buy her clothes or buy the baby things. Providing for her is completely unacceptable to me and I said so. What’s next? The fact that she would be leaning on him emotionally when they used to have an intimate relationship seems like a continuation of what they had before.
Don’t you think so?
when I started goin out with my bf 3yrs ago I didn’t have no idea I would have his ex around trying to get him back. my boyfriend and I started going out 3 yrs ago a couple months in the relationship we was havin problems and decided to give eachother space but not space for eachother to talk to new people. In his case his ex. While I went on vacation for a week he decided he was going to give his ex another chance. I was heart broken I would of never known he would go back to her. When I got back home me and him talked and he told me he wanted to be with me and his ex just wasn’t the same person he was in love with so I decided to give him another chance. when she found this out she went crazy cause she never was over him they broke up. Well 2yrs pass and me and my boyfriend were having a lot of problems so we broke up. We were broken up for bout 2months when I relaized I really needed him back and we started trying to fix things ago but he was really strange. Everytime we were togehter he would shut his phone off and say he didn’t want to be bothered. I just felt he was hiding something from me. My hunch was right because one day I found a text on his phone from his ex. When I confronted him he told me he missed her and just wanted her in his life as a friend and that he in love with me. But the ex tells everyone she loves him and will never give up on him. When I tell my boyfriend that he told me she wouldn’t say things like that. I told him I couldn’t deal with him and her being friends and I made him chose. At 1st he said he wasn’t going 2 chose but a couple days later he told me he couldn’t live without me and he chose me. Now were ok but I still have doubts in my head that he will go back to his ex or he still have feelings. She still tells people she not going to give up tell she has him and he always tells me he hates her for what she doing to our relationship. Can anyone help me. I just have doubts he will go back to his ex..does anyone feel the same way as me? I really need some advice.
I’ve read through a couple of these postings, and i still cant believe guys can be so stupid and heartless.
Basically, i met this guy about 4 months ago, we were really happy, our relationship was going strong and i felt that he truly loved me. Then early in January i went on holidy for 3 days with my family, my bf couldnt go with as he was working. The evening i returned from holiday, my bf fetched me from the airport, but he was all down and withdrawn (i just thought he was exhausted from work that day), then the following weekend i found out that the ex is BACK in his life. Apparantly she approached him first, and i know its the truth cause she invited him on Mxit on a private number. Then last week i found out they slept together the day after i came back from holiday. I phoned the b!itch and she admitted that he is like putty in her hands and he loves her and wants to be with her and her son, and they have a past that i would never understand and if she wants him she’ll have him.
After confronting him… He begged me to not leave him and said he was very sorry. Me being a sucker for love (coz i really do love this guy), i agreed that we can give it another chance. We were supposed to see eachother that Friday, then i got an email from him saying that he cant be with me in a relationship right now, his head is messed up and he needs time to sort himself out. I was devastated, this whole weekend has just been too much for me to handle, ive just been listening to depro music and crying and can barely eat or sleep. Then this morning i get to work AND, i get an email from him, telling me that for the first time him not having me apart of his life, he realised that he wants me and not the ex. He admitted that the whole ex thing started so fast.. and he lost control of himself… he knows he’s stuffed up and i can see he really really regrets sleeping with her..
My question is… everyone is telling me to forget about him, cos a dog wont stop barking and a cheater wont loose his spots… he wants to take me for dinner tonite and try save what ever is left of our relationship.. would i be dumb taking him back… my trust is down the drain, i will always wonder if he’s been sms’ing her or seeing her..
I know exactly what you mean! Im on the same boat, girl. It hurts. Sometimes when I think about it, IM SO READY TO TELL HIM TO FUCK OFF AND just end the whole damn thing. But then I think about it, and how sweet and true and caring he is, and I just feel like I need him.
It sucks so much.
Yeah, sometimes men are really INSENSITIVE!
Like my boyfriend, even if he already have a new girlfriend, (which is me), he still put his EX on his featured friends in Friendster… It’s really insulting, and what’s more! He just removed it when we went on the same computer shop on the same day, I’m just wondering, if we never had the chance to use computer at the same time, same day on the same computer shop, would he remove it?
OH MY GOD this could not describe my situation more perfectly! i wonder constantly if i compare and if he looks at me the way he looked at her etc… its such a bitch!!!! or more like.. she is such a bitch
Ok so I’m in a unique situation which might help some of you. When I got with my ex he did all the things above. When I asked about the picture of the girl in his apartment he told me it was his sister. I only found out later it was his ex. He even denighed saying it was his sister. Anyway our relationship was riddled with moments like this untill finally we broke up. After a while I tried to comtact him cause I missed him. He contacted me too. I thought we were on the road to recovery when I poped over to his house on day and saw him walking inside with another girl. I freaked. When I finally talked to him he said I didn’t understand and that he wasn’t dating anyone and that girl was a friends sister. This went on for months. Later I found out he had my stuff still up in his apartment and that this girl was in fact his new gf and he was telling her I wouldn’t go away. But everytime I tried he would try to hook me back in. He lied more and more till I got to the point where I believe he has a serious problem. It’s an ego thing. He likes feeling like he is wanted and he likes making the new gf worry about the past. It is a game. If he won’t take the exes stuff down and she calls him or worse he calls her which is often the case (he used to call me from his office phone so she wouldn’t see my number on the cell bill) you are notbthat important. I know it’s harsh but these guys like the idea of multiple women going after themand they will create the situation themselves all the while saying they hate it. Break up with the losers or when it’s over you may find yourself on the other side as part of their disfunctional lifestyle. Let it go. A man who continues with their ex is still getting something out of it or they would cut it out knowing it bothers you.
Hate to tell you the ex is probably just as clueless as you are. She’s not in a relationship with you he is. So she isn’t a bitch she is just being manipulated by the same man you are. Get out or one day you’ll be the crazy ex to his new girlfriend.
Its true- we all sound like depressed, deranged, unhappy women. The source of our problems is universal- men. I’ve been in a relationship for over two years. When I first started dating the guy, he never invited me out, told me he didn’t want to worry about his gf hanging all over him, etc, etc.
The catch? Just a few weeks before we started dating, he was still inviting his ex out. He was also talking to her during the first several months of our relationship, including the events of both of our birthdays, and the first time we had sex. (I lost my virginity to him).
He had lost his virginity to some mystery woman years before, and never clarified that it wasn’t the ex that he had been talking to, inviting out, telling that he missed, and constantly saying how hot she was. He compared me to this ex one day, and from there it went downhill.
I lost myself. He went out to parties, concerts, and with friends constantly. Often, I was his financial backer. I was rarely, if ever, invited to go along. On one occasion, he had plans to go to an out of state concert. He never invited me, and said that a friend was going to pick him up. This friend called when SHE was on the way to get him. WTF? He never told me that he was going with a fairly attractive woman that he’s known for years.
Another occasion- I moved to a new town, and started to make friends with this girl. We had been talking for several weeks, whenever she told me that she used to date my man. When I asked my guy’s friend about her, he told me a great long spill about how they had fucked. The horrible thing?- My man had been going over to her/her boyfriend’s house frequently for band practice. Many times he went without me, and a couple of times I went and had conversations with her. My boyfriend fucked her, didn’t tell me, and was hanging out with her all the time, knew I was making friends with her, and I found out from his friend.
This shit happens all the time.
To add another- he started working at a new job. There is an extremely attractive woman that works there. I didn’t pay any attention to her, and thought that maybe we could be friends. Well, next thing I know, my boyfriend and her have spent tons of time talking on myspace. I asked him what was up, and he said nothing. He also promised me that he would never talk to her again, in case I was uncomfortable. I appreciated his efforts, and didn’t pay attention. Not long after that (less than a week)I long onto his myspace, as I did periodically, and found tons of messages between the two of them that he had deleted and tried to hide from me.
He lied to me about the whole ordeal. Here recently, because I threatened to break up with him, he admitted that he thinks she is hot, and that he likes her “but only as a friend.” He “doesn’t want to cheat on me or anything. He just wanted to talk to her because she was nice to him.”
Well, I found out that this woman was hot enough that he lied to me about her, talked to her secretly, and even chatted with her on IM.
This is how my boyfriend has behaved the entire two years that we have been together. I love him, but am serioulsy close to breaking up with him.
I had to go to school with his ex, and I have to work with the hot girl from myspace. Often, I go in to visit him at work, and the two of them are just sitting there, talking and laughing. He has promised numerous times to stop doing this, but hasn’t.
I’ve suffered psychologically. I quit being who I was and tried to become all of these other girls. I dealt with a long history of sexual abuse, which really caused me to be insecure. My man treating me like this only made me more insecure than ever. I don’t feel like I’m happy with him anymore. Maybe we should break up. I’ve allowed him to destroy my confidence. 🙁 I really want to stay together, but how happy can I be? What type of love did he show me? Does he deserve yet another chance just because he is finally starting to realize how much he has actually fucked up?
Why do you let this guy walk all over you and take advantage of you? What are you so afraid of? Being alone? You look like a pathetic fool. This is why these guys think they can get away with treating women like a piece of garbage. He obviously has 0 respect for you. When are you going to take the hint? He WANTS you to move on, he just doesn’t have the cajones to say so, so he just treats you like crap hoping you leave. MOVE ON!!! KICK HIM TO THE CURB. You probably won’t but you will just have to wait until he dumps you eventually. That’s my 2 cents.
I come from theUK, so does my boyfriend/ex but with his job he does a lot of travelling. About a year and a few months ago he had a girlfriend, lets call her Georgia , she was his first proper relationship while he was travelling,he stopped in a certain country for a few months and dated her while he was there. They broke up when he had to leave, obviously as it would be too far to have a relationship. They used to email eachother till summer time afterwards, she’d ask when he was visiting again and they wanted to meet up.
The boyfriend got a new girlfriend a couple of months after leavign who is from the Uk, which he told me “didn’t mean much to him”. Georgia then got a new boyfriend at about summer time, which I suppose he knew about.
I would see a few messages on his email from her but he didn’t reply to them, and as far as I concerned they didnt talk.
I started a relationship with my boyfriend in late September, and he was really adoring to me. Very loving and a bit over possesive, which is why it came as a shock to me.
He had to go away with his job in February, near the place where Georgia lived,and he was completely in tears when he had to go. He would call me every night while he was away and stay in contact whenever he wasnt working.
He came back after three weeks and everythign was normal, he was his loving adoring self, even a bit more so than before.
a few weeks after he had come home, I found out that he had told his friend he still had feelings for his ex, Georgia. I confronted him about this, and he completely broke down, telling me he didn’t mean it, it was a passing thought because he was away. I haven’t spoken to him alot since, and I’ve told him hes reall hurt me. Ive had messages from his friends telling me hes a complete wreck, I’m really confused and don’t know what to do, i don’t believe anything he says anymore. But i don’t just want to be a stepping stone, or him telling me if I do decide to date him again that he still has feelings for her. It felt like this was right.
Please help
Cry for 1 day and then move on. You’d be surprised how one day of crying will get you over it. You’ll never do that again.
Girls I went through the same late last year.
Be strong, and most of all get rid of this man!! You will always have this jealousy and doubt in your mind. Why do you want to live like that?
I have been seeing other people after I got rid of the loser that loved his ex who I was with and beleive me, I am much better off without him. Making the move and the first few days can be hard, but why should you settle for second best? No one deserves that. He’ll soon realise its his loss.
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months now. But he still talks to his “EX”. To me she isn’t really his ex because the only reason they are not together is because of distance. They have been “physcially seperated for a year. My boyfriend is a immigrant so this girl is back in his home country. I have never asked him how often they talk but he did talk to her right in front of me on the phone and tried to make it up by having sex. This is my first ever relationship so when knowing this situation, I keep to myself and try to keep the relationship going to see if he will fall for me enough to cut down the talking with her. I know i shouldn’t ignore this and tell him how i feel which i am considering doing but i don’t want to seem like i can’t trust him and nag him when we have only been dating for 2 months. I want to see where the relationship goes but I dont want to go through all of this stuff only to find out that he rather chose her over me. So what are some points on how i should go about this relationship? I know some of you will say dump him there are plenty fish in the sea, but maybe there is something else that could help me continue on with this relationship and get “this girl” pushed out of the picture.
My boyfriend is currently in Iraq right now, he’s been gone for two months but we’ve been dating for 9 months. Just recently one of his ex girlfriend’s friended me on myspace asking if he needs anything because her family wanted to send him a care package. So I friended her back, thinking she was just trying to be nice, but then when I looked at her pictures I found that he’s been leaving her comments on her wall and on her pictures, telling her how pretty and beautiful she is. Things are getting really serious between us, he has mentioned buying me a ring and has said that he wants to marry me when he gets back so should I be worried that he’s still in love with his ex?
my current bf of 9 months..
talked to his ex for 4 hours right in front of me, while i repeatly tried to get him off so we could cook dinner.
he claims his over her, and yet when she comes in town, he always sees her. i feel like he loves me but isnt over her.
you ned to wake up and smell the coffee i feel so sad for you, not once does your man show any remorse as he continues to treat you like something he stepped on.
He blatantly flirts in front of your showing no respect for you or your feelings at all.
I am in a loving relationship with my boyfriend, he and his ex broke up due to him not wanting to be with her anymore and the fact that he would not move for her. she still contacts him one year on but he is totally honest with me telling me when she has contacted him, what he said what she said and talk it through – but it’s never a big deal he doesn’t want to be a bastard and tell her to fuck off he’s civil with her and that’s it – he makes it clear without being rude he’s not interested.
Apart from that he trusts me and i trust him. He makes me feel special, there are no mementos around his place of her – he’s over it.
He does not enagage in flirtation with any other girl. He jokes about with colleagues and friends but always reminds me how special I am.
he makes me happy and i make him happy. There are no secrets we share our lives together.
YOU deserve so much more that this loser has to offer you.
Please leave him and find someone who will treat you like you deserve and will make you feel safe, secure and more importantly loved all of the time – not when he feels like he needs to use you for something.
Get some courage and move on – cry for 24 hours and get it all out and move on.
He is not worth waiting around for, he won’t chnage for you – he doesn’t want to because he doesn’t respect you.
You are worth so much more.
Girlfriend, he is just not that into you. But it’s not you. He’s just not into anyone. He’s into himself and what’s good for him. Another narcissist in our generation who probably doesn’t even have anything to offer a woman. Does he even have a job or is he a gigalo? Sounds like a gigalo. You should have kicked him along time ago as soon as he started showing any signs of disrespect. There are plenty others. See ya douchebag!
okay, i have a boyfriend that i have been dating for almost eight months, & what pissed me off the most is the fact he looks at other girls, expectially his ex girlfriends. He says he’s not checking them out, but seriously what else could you be doing? he says he loves me more then anything in the world, & he is really close to his niece & he promises on his nieces life that he is in love with me and only me. & dating my boyfriend has done nothing but make me feel so inscure about myself. he never shows apperciation for me, yes he will do something if i ask him to, but he never shows greatfulness to the things i do for him. & he expects me to do things for that i want him to do for me. but i really want to know is why can’t he stop looking at other girls. i mean i’m very pretty i’m not a ten but i’m at least an 8 i get told all the time, & half these girls are not even pretty. i want to know why he does it? and what is the reason behind it. & yes i find the ex’s stuff in his room all the time, & i asked him in the beginning to get rid of all of it because he called me her name two times, my name is angela her is ashlei so it’s kinda of similar. but it’s whatever just give me advice, i just broke up with him today because i’m not sure what to do, and i’m sick of giving him chance after chanceeee.
After my boyfriend dumped me a month ago, i was so stressed that my hair begin to fall and i used a treatment that instead of helping me destroyed my entire hair.I bought a wig from an African American wigs store and then my boyfriend say me after 4 months. He thought that i was hot and i told him that is a wig and he felt bad because he made me insecure.
funny im in the same situation. my bf is in afghanistan. i thought we were serious till his ex messaged me tellin me that they had been talking everyday since he deployed and he told her were not that serious and that he wasnt sure what he wanted and that he is happy with me but see’s a future with her but me at the same time. I DONT KNOW. i dont even know what to do. i cant trust him anymore. i dont know what he is doing over there. if he is still talking to her. she loves him and told me she wants him back . i dont know what to do. i dont know why he is still with me if he isnt that into me. i been waiting six months almost already and trust me im beginning to think im waisting my time.
well, I totally think you are wasting your time with this dude. He is clearly the one, who is not sure of what he wants. AS for the ex I would have shown all the messages and other stuff that she sends you to him, and asked him to leave. If he loves you he will talk to the ex and tell her to stop spoiling your life. If not then be happy that you got rid of the jerk.
Yep you are definatley waisting your time…..why the heck would any of you girls want to be with a man whom clearly just wants any woman. Treat yourselves with respect you deserve it…believe it or not there are men out there that love only one, look at only one, give fully inot their relationship and make you feel special…Move on I say find the man you all so deserve. He is out there
I am literally in the same situation!
IVE BEEN WIT MY BF FOR ALMOST 6 MONTHS AND HE STILL TLKS TO HIS EX SUPPOSLY THERE FRIENDS BUT IM UNCOMFORTABLE HE ASKED ME TO BE COOL WIT IT CAUSE SHE NEEDS ONE TO TALK TO BUT NOW I WENT ON MYSPACE AND SAW A PIC OF THEM POSTED A YR AGO IDK WHT TO DO IM
So..my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. When I met him, him and his girlfriend had jar broke up. But they decided they were still going to go to the formal dance together which I respected because they had everything planned. But later that month(new years eve) he ditched me to go to a party where she was at. He ended up cheating on me. A week later I put 2 and 2 together and figured it out and nailed him on it. He called me and texted me several times that night but I never answered. But I thought, well..if he wanted her, he would just drop it now and go for her. But he’s still fighting. So I gave him another chance. For the next 6 months we were great!!! Except the fact that I kept hearing the same story from all of his ex’s friends that they still talked and hung out and everything. Well just 3 days ago, my best friend told me they were doing these things. So I broke up with him, thinking it was true. His ex called me the night we broke up and we talked for 2 hours. He got very very very upset that we broke up.. He completely broke down. We met at the beach yesterday and talked. Everytime I mentioned anything she said, he got mad. He said that she has always been a liar which is true because I knew her before this situation started coming about. Personally, i think that if he wanted her sooo badly like people say, he’d take this chance and go be with her because she told him that she still wanted to be with him. He’s stilll fighting to get me back. But I want your help…what do I do? Believe him? Or the ex who is a chronic liar?
Did he tell you he has been talking to her? My boyfriend was in iraq and you can’t really keep in contact everyday so I think that she is just trying to break you guys up. Jealous people do stuff to other people to keep them thinking. If he really don’t want to be with you he wont. Don’t listen to other people. Who does he come home to every night when he is home you or her?
alright so i have a question.. what do you do when your boyfriend asks you if its alright to be friends with his ex and you say yeah but you lied about it… and you really dont want him to talk to her or her call him and stuff. im so confused and idk what to say =,,,,,,,,( please help me. email me shychicka09@yahoo.com
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3months. He had just split up from his ex 1month before we got together. Me and my BF used to date 9yr ago and split but now we have found each other again. Unfortunatly everything isn’t as sweet as it sounds, he still has this thing for his ex. He talks about her, doesn’t want to do things with me as he done them with her. I have found emails to her saying that he wishes they never broke up, he loves her and not me but thats not what he tells me. I know what my head says run as far away as possible but my heart says you love him and don’t want to let him go again. We do talk about it to each other so i’m not kept in the closet but it is all getting a bit too much now.What can i do
I met this great guy about 2 months ago, he was in a sick relationship that was built on lies with this girl and they were on and off for 3 years, but he did everything to keep away from her, he changed his phone number, told his parents and friends not to tell her where he was, she kept on searching for his car but that was no good and it all happened 3 months before he met me. he went back to work in another country and we started having fights on the phone and msn, we had a huge fight and after a few days he sent me that she went to him in that country and they are back together!! what shocked me is that it was over before he even met me and he didnt want to get back to her, i know that she gets back to him by sleeping with him but their problems remain that’s why they break up soon after. anyway, he called me later and told me that he wasn’t on me but it was a coinsidence. she called him and they went back together…. i know it will be over soon or so i hope. i really like this guy and we had a great time. i feel that its partially my fault because i used to fight a lot with him. what can i do? should i stop thinking about him?
Are you kidding me? He does not want to be with you, otherwise he would be? Why are you waiting around to let HIM make the decision to come back. There are plenty of fish in the sea! I promise!
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Honey, wake up and smell the coffee. Guess what? He’s not only playing you, he’s playing the other girl too. How do you know that it’s ONLY the two of you? Trust me, there are many others. The second he’s a jerk, move on. You’ll be glad you did. It’s not that hard.
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I loved this post and clearly i found it for a reason…i met this guy and we’re dating, the other day i was talking to him on MSN and i said something like “Oh have tears in your eyes” and he responded by saying i dont cry in front of anyone, i’ve only ever cried in front of one person and i asked who and he was like just someone and i asked why what happened and there was a long silence and then i was like its ok i get it and changed the subject…it was clearly to do with his ex who cheated on him…my question is why didn’t he just tell me straight up who it waas over and why in simple terms and also before he left he added how intelligent i was after we finished up a convo on poems and again how pretty he thinks i am, is this because he’s trying to be like oh i like you now…is he over his ex? I dont know who his ex is, but there is this one person whose pic i’ve seen on his facebook and the same girl has been mentioned in convo twice in a positive light (once when we were in his car going somewhere and then i looked at him and he dropped the convo and another time when i was on the phone to him)…they broke up at least 2 years ago
Thanks for this post! I’m impressed with all of the support and encouragement being shown to the women who came forward and shared their stories with us. The majority of other blogs and discussion boards concerning this topic are so quick to label the new girlfriend as “insecure, controlling, jealous, paranoid, etc.” and consider it quite normal for a boyfriend to be contacting his “friend” (a.k.a. the ex-girlfriend) on a regular basis.
I’ve also read comments about “what a nice guy he must be to stay friends with his ex.” I beg to differ, since they are exes for a reason and I find it incredibly unattractive when a guy is still spending time and energy on someone who wasn’t good enough to be his woman in the first place. If they have kids together, they have a legitimate reason to be in contact- but other than that, I would proceed with caution. It’s difficult to move on with one foot in the past and the other in the present.
You are wasting our time. Dump him. The second he went behind your back to talk to his ex and NOT TELL YOU, is the second he cheated. Kick him to the curb and gain your independence back, you are so worth more than this scum.
A lot of women are struggling with this very same thought. Thanks for bringing light to it.
Why some men define a woman’s choice to not be lied to/cheated on as being jealous, controlling, and insecure?
When she left or defended her dignity, she was accused of the above. He asked to marry her, yet he was constantly chatting with his ex-girlfriends, still telling his ex-wife he loves her, and making new ‘female friends’. He had a woman he met online in his hotel room, went to visit his sick ex-girlfriend, and allowed his ‘real friends’ to talk badly about his fiancee concerning things told to them from his point of view! So, she decided to move on and he has everyone feeling sorry for him as he sends her messages accusing her of abandoning him, etc.
I have a situation that I have no idea what to do with. I hope someone who can help will read this.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to a year now. I love him so much, but I have a feeling that it is not mutual, even though he says he loves me. He is currently living with his ex wife who he was with for 10 years, and has two children with. He is currently unemployed and is working towards a security job, so I know he doesn’t have very many options as of living situations right now. Okay, so I learned to deal with that, they’ve been separated for nearly two years now, but I have a feeling that she can’t live without him. Everyday she gets him to make her tea, go get her cigarettes, warm up her food, call people for her, and many many other things. Her current boyfriend lives with them, and she brags about having “two husbands”, although her and my boyfriend have been talking about a divorce that I am not sure will ever happen.
I’ve tried talking to my boyfriend about this, but he just gets mad at me, and defends her. He doesn’t care about how I feel about the situation, he just says “it doesn’t affect you in any way whatsoever, so why do you let stupid sh*t bother you?” He says he wants to move out with me as soon as possible, but I don’t think that is going to happen, he is really comfortable with the current situation.
I want to be with him, and I want to talk to him about this without him getting mad, but I have a feeling deep down that he is still in love with her.
Can someone please help? I have no idea what to do.
Hey everyone, sorry for the bother but i was hoping someone could give me alittle advice. My fiance and i both have had rough pasts when it comes to love. Im devorced with three kids by my ex, i could never trust him. He always lied. My fiance, took my kids in bought us a home. but i cant help feeling he is not yet over his ex. Sometimes he brings her up and in the past compares me to her. he says its because in all the years he devoted to her all he had time for was her and no friends.Im caught between a rock and a hard place. Is he honestly over his ex or is it my trust issues taunting with me. im so confused. If anyone can give me some pointers it would be awesome. Thank you 8)
I have a somewhat similar situation and I am in need of advice/help. I started dating my boyfriend whom still lived with his ex girlfriend. He had told me that she moved back in because she needed a place to stay.unfortinately, she moved back in a month before my boyfriend and I started dating. Decided to try to deal with their “sarcastic bickering” and watch her tell him what to do around their house. It is at the point, rather stalled, to where I asked him to get her name off the mortage. The ex girl won’t leave until she is off the mortage and has already found an apartment bupt won’t leave. She is waiting on him to make the next move.
He has been “lazy” or putting it off for sometime now. He says that he is afraid his credit reports are too bad to refinance the house. He also said he has to write the credit people toretrieve the password he forgot to his credit report. He has currently not written them and when I aks what he is doing about it, he gets mad and says “well what can I do?”
I cannot continue living with him AND his ex for obvious reasons, it is stressing and hurting me. The whole her moving out process has been stalled for months. I know he loves me and that his ex and him are more of “acquiantecs” now. But I can’t live this way or an unorganized life.
I need advice and help please.
I just read I Hate His/Her Ex by Alex Cooper. You can get it on Amazon or other bookstores. It helped me to deal with so many issues that I had with my fiance’s ex – who I really hated!! Now, my relationship is perfect 🙂 xxx
I just read I Hate His/Her Ex by Alex Cooper. You can get it on Amazon or other bookstores. It helped me to deal with so many issues that I had with my fiance’s ex – who I really hated!! Now, my relationship is perfect 🙂 xxx
I Hate His/Her Ex is a book for anyone having difficulty coming to terms with their partner’s past relationships – brilliant read! Available on Amazon or most bookstores – Download from Amazon or buy it on paperback!
I just want to say that I am more than sorry for ever doubting this spell templeofancientancestors@gmail.com, I should have know the spell caster possess true powers when he accepted my case. I am now a believer of what he did and that there are powers we normal humans can not understand. Thanks you Ancient Priest of templeofancientancestors@gmail.com for bringing my husband back to me!
Hi people, this is my testimony to Dr. Dova! It took me a long time to think about this testimony! You helped me so much lately that I really wanted to express all the feelings I have since I met you. Of course, I am really happy that you reunited us. Yet, what I will remember from that fantastic experience you made me live with this spell, it’s that you have always been a very kind and sincere person. Now I consider you like a confident, and not only a simple spell caster. You remind me a lot of my grandmother who was counting me many stories about voodoo when I was young. You are a rare person and I’m glad that I met you. I can feel all your spiritual goodness in all the emails you wrote, from the first day until now! I’ll be forever thankful.”
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powerful kumar, thank you for what you have done for me concerning
George and to his no good wife, he seems to be allot more attentive
towards me now through your efforts. He says that his wife Samantha
is very suspicious of him now and wants to separate from him as you
said it would happen in the spell. Samantha is giving him a very hard
time now and a divorce with them is eminent as i have heard it from a
reliable source. We see each other three times a week or better when
he can get out to be alone which is getting to be more and more these
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for all your help with this problem and just wanted to say Thank You
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I have tried very many internet spell caster’s service, but non of them have work for me.them a friend of mine introduce me to one Dr Ayela Gonko, whom she said have help her alot with all type of spell.
so i decide to at least try him with a love and lucky spell.
to my greatest surprise, the same week which the spell was cast, i got some unbelieveable result.
Now i have a lovely, caring and a gorgeous man, the exact kind of man i have been looking for in the past years, we have now been togather for six months now and we even planing about how wedding which will be coming up in the next 2 month from now.
also i was given a job which i never taught of have in my life.
I must confess, I’m a believer!” If you requires any assistance, you can contact him through ayelagonkotemple@yahoo.com
My name is johnny, i have been having problems with my girlfriend and have been together with her for over 6 years now, I do love this woman a lot and do want to get married to her but at times i did feel a little confused about this and has wondered if she has been true to the relationship…until i have found king son. she told me that she was not being true with me..I did later find out that she has been seeing her ex boyfriend I was overwhelmed and did not know what to do, although I still loved this girl and could not see myself with anyone else, I did not want to lose her and king son assured me that they could help me with this problem, I contacted .ayelalashrine@gmail.com once again to let him know that I did want to get help with this. With the powers that they do have my girlfriend and I did work a lot of things out and she has came back to me and we are now back together and engaged I did get over the fact that she has cheated on me but sometimes we do need to forget the past and move on to a better future and without king son’ help I dont think it would have ever worked out.he is truly an Angel sent from up above!
It’s unbelievable how fortunate I feel after finding your website. For the past 6 months, I have been so depressed after losing my fiancé to another woman. My money situation worsened so much that I thought I’d have to file for bankruptcy. I had a huge amount of debt and I didn’t know what to do. Out of complete and total desperation, I contacted many of those so-called individuals who promised powerful magic, witchcraft or black magic. None of them worked and none were as wonderful, affectionate and warm as Dr. Ogun has been. He is definitely different from the others and I felt immediate hope and strength from hearing about the promises he had to offer. He carries an air of purity and divine strength that is as pure as fresh snow on the ground. I requested Dr. Ogun’s most powerful spells and I was relieved right away that I had someone to solve my problems for me. His spells worked wonders and I am now back with my fiancé and my money troubles resolved itself after winning the lottery. Dr. Ogun, I have no idea what I would have done without you being there to help me out. Work with him on this email address and you will get the best result: Templeofloveandmoney@gmail.com
With best regards, Whitney
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My MUM was always the person I turned to when I needed something. It was her advice I counted on, and her that I talked to about my most needful things. She died 3 months ago, and at first I was so lost without her I did not think I could function. But then I found DR MOON He has filled that empty hole in my heart from the loss of my mother. I can turn to him for guidance and spiritual advice. He is always available and he always cares. It’s not about money for him. Even better, I finally asked him to perform a love spell on me, and it worked!! I met a man who had also experienced a great loss and we were able to become close friends and provide support to each other. We have fallen in love and my life could not be better. Thank you, DR, MOON for helping me through the worst times of my life, for being such a great spell caster, and for giving me a love spell that has brought me so much joy. If you doubt his ability, trust me. You should take a chance. It pays off in ways you could never even imagine.Email him ayelalashrine2@gmail.com
YOUR EX IS THE PAST. GET IT GOT IT GOOD!! HE/SHE IS HISTORY AND AS SUCH SHOULD REMAIN DEAD AND BURIED LIKE THE ANCIENT RUINS OF ROME! 🙂
For those of you who are confused, the definition of an ex is as follows: prefix for someone who was or used to be. A former boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, or even friend. History is a branch of knowledge that records and explains past events. Anyone who keeps going back in time is living in a time warp and is regressing while the rest of the world is progressing. Seems like the problem exists within someone other than you. You can only do so much to help a person who insists on retarding his/her personal growth. Look forward to greener pastures.
Find me a definition where it says that an ex is someone who you are great friends and/or business buddies with after an exit or breakup. Go ahead. I challenge you! It doesn’t exist in any of the dictionaries I know of. Not even in my make-believe dictionary! Why? Because men (especially ex sexual partners) do not have any desire to keep women as “friends” and/or business buddies unless YOU can bring in money and serious connections for THEM. Never the other way around and in most cases that is NOT the case.
Another thing, for those of you who are confused about the term separated, it means just that. Living in separate homes. Anyone who believes that a man/woman is separated while cohabitating with a spouse is a fool. If I hear one more so-called “intelligent” woman claim that it is because he is a wonderful and caring father who loves his children, I may be known to wack her across the head. I really hope this helps and have a wonderful spring break! 🙂
yes thank to Internet for helping me to get in contact with DR AGBON how help with love spell that help me recover my ex love back to me and i also appreciate you all for you advice and the trust i will also advice anyone who help to contact him on this email: indiapowerfulspell@gmail.com.
I have great pleasure in telling PEOPLE that Clarke came up and asked me to give it another go!
He texted me on Thursday to say he was back from skiing on Sunday morning and asked if we could go out for lunch. We did and we saw each other on Monday and Tuesday. He finally opened his heart and has told me he loves me and missed me very much. I asked him to take this slowly and he agreed. Now we are back, I feel so grateful, PRIESTOFLOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM IS sweet. I’m so happy IT finally ends well.
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Thank you abalabatemple@gmail.com for taking the time for bringing my man back to me. I went to 3 different spell casters, but only you got the job done. Like I said before I appreciate all your time, effort, and energy you put during the spell cast. He is more open and he admitted he loves me and really want to be in a relationship with me. After 2 years of seperartion we are now back THANK YOU ………WALTER
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DR. HOUSE HAVE YUE SEEN MEI BALLS YET??
HOUSE SAYS “THAT’S WHAT SHE SAID”
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I bought the large jar of salve the good Dr told me to rub on my privates and took his advice to get a cheap hooker and take a few little blue pills.
Life is great now and I hope I never see the bitch again! Good work, Dr.
I thought he’d never trust me again, I went with someone else for just an outting, and I really regretted it. I don’t know why I did it. But this priestessmunak@gmail.com spell led to him forgiving me. I’m so grateful.
Help me nd my bf hv been dating for four years he has cheating on me more then once I forgave nd stil moved on nd now he invts his ex gf on anythr mxit that I don’t no about whn I askd him he denied it wat do u thnk is going on nd he does nt call me or even says he misses me
“HURRAY…!!!my spell worked Par my lover is happy to accept me again and i should be joining him in a week from now. I am travelling to Berlin (GERMANY) to see him. UNBELIEVABLE. prophetharry’s spell really took me out of the depressed state, upon all i did to my lover, he still accepted me back, i will never ever forget prophetharry@ymail.com
Mr.kelly best
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I KNOW OF A GIRL WHO WAS SEEING A MARRIED MAN AROUND 10 YEARS AGO (GREEN WITH ENVY) AND SHE CONSULTED PSYCHICS OF ALL KINDS TO HEAR THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN!! HE IS NOT LEAVING HIS WIFE FOR YOU, HE WILL LEAVE WEN HE IS READY AND THEN WILL GO ON TO MARRY SOMEONE ELSE!! WEN AT LEAST 4 DIFFERENT PSYCHICS CONVEY THIS READING, YUE NEED TO PUSH ON ANOTHER HEAD!! PSYCHICS ARE FOR ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES BUT THE GOOD ONES ARE SUPER ESPN!! THAT’S A FACT!! 🙁
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When I found ehisalextemple@gmail.com I was so frustrated with what had recently happened. There were two of us in line for a great promotion at work. However, I was not willing to “fix the books” like my manager wanted so I did not get the promotion… the other guy did. I really needed that to survive as I was barely getting by on my measly pay. I found your site and knew what I wanted… I wanted my manager to finally be caught, along with the guy that now had the promotion, wanted them both to get what they deserved. A week after requesting the ramshackled finances revenge spell our company was audited, the accounting discrepancies were found and the people responsible were let go and brought up on fraud charges. I now have my ex-managers job and don’t expect my employees to “fix” anything other than their mistakes.
When I found ehisalextemple@gmail.com I was so frustrated with what had recently happened. There were two of us in line for a great promotion at work. However, I was not willing to “fix the books” like my manager wanted so I did not get the promotion… the other guy did. I really needed that to survive as I was barely getting by on my measly pay. I found your site and knew what I wanted… I wanted my manager to finally be caught, along with the guy that now had the promotion, wanted them both to get what they deserved. A week after requesting the ramshackled finances revenge spell our company was audited, the accounting discrepancies were found and the people responsible were let go and brought up on fraud charges. I now have my ex-managers job and don’t expect my employees to “fix” anything other than their mistakes.
It took me a long time to think about this testimony! prophetharry helped me so much lately that I really wanted to express all the feelings I have since he casterd my spells for me. Of course, I am really happy that he reunited us. Yet, what I will remember from this experience is that prophet have always been a very kind and sincere person. prophet is a rare person and I m glad that I got prophet to cast my spell for me and not some other Fucking scammer. I can feel all his spiritual goodness of his love spell working in and around me. I will be forever thankful to prophetharry@ymail.com. for making my husband to come home and take care of me and the children
Danielle Bessa,UK
“I wanted to say that this has been the only spell I ever had cast and it has worked VERY FAST! My i and my lover are together again after 5 months of break up and I know that prophetharry@ymail.com made it happen!
I WANT TO THANK DR ATAKPO FOR BRINGING BACK MY JOY BACK TO ME. I THOUHT IT WAS REALL BUT UNTILL I MEET A VERY GOOD FRIEND OF MY IN INDAIN WHO TOLD ME HOW POWERFUL THE GREAT DR ATAKPO HIS.
MY NAME IS SANDY MIKE FROM LONDON I AM MARRIRED WITH HUSBAND AND 2 KIDS. I MARRIED MY HUSBAND WHEN I WAS 18YEARS OLD. LAST WEEK JULY 27TH MY HUSBAND FIND A NEW WIFE AND I WAS BEEN IGNORED, I WAS FALTRESTED AND OUR MARRIAGE GOT SORRYFUL, BUT I NEVER BELEIVE THAT THE DR COULD HELP ME GET BACK MY HUSBANK JUST IN 12HOURS I EMAIL HIM AND I TOLD HIM EVERTHING THAT HAPPEND AND HE TOLD ME THAT I SHOULD STOP CRYING THAT HE WILL NOT LET ME DOWN AND I DID NOT EVEN KNOW THAT HE WAS THE OLD DR AND A CHIEF PRIEST IN THE OWN OF WEST AFRICA REGION HE IS SO POWERFUL.
HERE IS MY EMAIL IF YOU CANNOT GET HIS EMAIL ON TIME BECAUSE HE IS A VERY OLD AND EXPERIENCE SPELL CASTER AND DUE TO HIS POWER HE HAVE MANY CHILDERN IN THE TEMPLE. MY EMAIL sandymike45@hotmail.com
HE HELP ME AND AS I AM TALKING RIGHT MY HUSBAND IS BACK TO ME AND HE HAS DIVORCE HIS NEW WIFE ROSE KELLY.
I THANK THE DR SOMUCH FOR HIS HELP AND THE ONLY THING I PAY FOR THE SPELL CASTE WAS TO INFORM PEOPLE THAT ARE IN ANY PROBLEM THAT THEY SHOULD NOT ECTITED BY EMAIL HIM. @ atakpospelltemple@yahoo.com
DR ATAKPO YOU ARE LIKE A FATHER TO ME YOU HELP ME IN GETING MY HUSBAND BACK I SAY THANK YOU SOMUCH IN 2000000 TIMES I THANK YOU I THANK YOU I THANK YOU SOMUCH.
IF YOU ARE IN NEED OF HELP LIKE THIS YOU CAN EMAIL HIM
HE CAN BRING BACK YOUR EX BACK TO YOU
HE CAN HELP YOU GET A GOOD JOB.
HE CAN HELP YOU GET MAGIC MONEY.
HE CAN HELP YOU GET A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR LOVER.
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“I am writing this because I want to testify how great you are THE WORLD POWERFULL TEMPLE everyone needs to know! I am a very satisfied and happy customer. I can’t tell how long it’s been since I’ve bought spells online, but none of them had the same results than yours. Margaret definitely moved in with me 3 months ago. It was just a few weeks after you cast your spell. I know I should have messaged you before, but I was a bit scared that she could find out about the spell you did so I removed all your emails. Anyway, I can tell all your future customers who are reading this that they are doing the right choice to go with you for a spell. It was always great communicate with you and all the services you offer are just excellent. Thank you for everything you did for me!” theworldpowerfulltemple@gmail.com
My Name is JANE.I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single…when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life…I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job…he told me he gonna help me…i don’t believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he’s busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday…My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she’s doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven’t seen anything yet… he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to johnyiyi@rocketmail.com I cant give out his number cos he told me he don’t want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he’ will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck:johnyiyi@rocketmail.com.ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com
I was heartbroken that my husband moved in with another woman so I had a spell to bring him back home and stop the affair he had with her. In just 2days he left her and went to live at the motel. He called to say so and get news of the kids. The discussion was pleasant, as if he was changing to become the man I knew when we got married. It was exactly as you said…. Now he’s back home and is absolutely crazy about me. I am so thrilled by this spell that I cant find the right words to say how I feel right now. All I can decently say is that you changed my life and saved the most important thing in my life: my family, way to contact my savior is wiseindividualspell@gmail.com.
Is she in prison or undergoing gender reassignment or campaigning for Romney?
Am from Australia, but i reside in “USA” i came in contact with a spell casters who cast a spell for me to get back my lover back. i have been scammed thousands of dollars by some fake spell casters, i needed my lover back so desperately because of the lone that have echo my heart. until i was referred to meet a spell caster on-line on this address by a friend who has once felt their powers helptemple@yahoo.com i visit the spell caster with little or no faith because of the previous and terrible experience i have had. they then cast the spell it worked after 2days just the way he said it would be. I am glad with all gratitude that i now have my lover back to my life with his help. he is so real with no doubt. why not see for yourself if in such worries. again on helptemple@yahoo.com
I wonder if this spell caster can find Marisa Sung?
It’s nice without Marisa around.
shes the queen bee of asiance.
One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest? Well, wherever she is I hope she is OK
Mental Ward most likely
My name is Ganemed Collins from Switzerland. My boyfriend is going out with his boss daughter and he wants to marry her and become the owner of the company when her father died because she is the only child. He broke up with me February last year and living me with a shattered heart. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster when i went to Africa in June last year on a business summit because i am a petroleum engineer. I met a priest who is powerful, he helped me restored my relationship that was already broken. I was surprise that when i came back from Africa during July, Robbert came back and apologize for all that he has done wrong and we got my married October last year. It pleases me that i am a happy woman now with a baby boy who sleeping besides me. I promise to tell the whole world the truth about the priest because he is a nice man. Anyone who need help should contact him through his email address templeofpermanenthealing@gmail.com
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Hello to the people of this forum< Am chizzy from Texas and i can say that am the happiest person on earth since last week with what DR UKO has done for me , it all started last year October when my fiance left me in Texas and travel to see his parents in Ohio at first him was still calling me and show love even when him was away , but it gets to a point when he no longer gives a shit about me , and i noticed it so when i tried to confront him , he told me that he dose not love me again that he feel like being alone i was shocked and heartbroken when i tried talking he will hang the phone on me i was so heart broken and i was frustrated about this , but on a second thought i was not convince that he was on his right senses so i discuss this with my elder sister who lives in California and she directed me to DR UKO of ukospelltemple@yahoo.com saying that the man has helped her friend in such case before so i said to my self let me tried i contacted this man and explain everything to him and behold dr uko said to me what am to do and i did exactly what he and he said after three days my fiance will call me and once he calls me i should pick the calls and he gave some other instructions . so i said okay , but to my best surprise on the 7th of November my fiancee called me and started saying on the phone am sorry it was like a dream to me , with this i said i will tell the world of his dr UKO goodness in my life , so if any one is out there and needs help in his or her relationship can also contact him today via
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My girlfriend and I were happy as far I could tell and I never thought that we would break up. When her cousin died in a tragic car accident she went to her family in Mexico for a week. I couldnt go because I was in the middle of entertaining out of town clients for work. She did not seem to be upset that I could not go so I let her be. The next thing I knew, she reconnected with an old friend from high school that she had a crush on years back and they started to have an affair! I had no clue what was going on until she came back from Mexico. She proceeded to see this old friend and I caught her and her old friend one night hugging each other. I confronted her and she told me the truth about what happened. We broke up and went our separate ways. Neither of us fought for our relationship. I was angry and decided not to be upset about it and just keep it moving. Then after about few months of no contact with her I became sad. I wanted her to tell me she wanted to be with me and not her old friend. I contacted Dr.Muna for a love spell and he truly helped me! he was able to get her to miss me she wanted us to get back together again. She had lot of regrets and felt bad for not fighting to keep me and for cheating in generally. she cherish our relationship so much more now and we are together now! You can also get your lover back with the help of Dr.Muna contact him through his email: marvelspelltemple@outlook.com his web site http://marvelspelltemple.webs.com/