Confusion
Why does it happen when someone ends up falling in love usually the feeling never gets returned? Why do we have to put so much effort but, not be satisfied with the outcome of the results? So much goes through in someones life and yet, it just ends up in disappointment. It is a mystery on how we hear things regarding that nice guys finish last and end up on top. Which I can say that, I am very skeptical about that saying due to the fact that it seems that all I can be good for to many of my girl friends as a friend. See, that is the problem too many girl friends. Why do I always get the shit end of the stick?
I keep hearing, ” You're such a good friend and I wish I could find a guy out there for me who will treat me as good as you.” Um…. Hello!!!! I am here just waiting for the opportunity to be the one by your side. To care for you, love, adore you, cherish every moment, but, still not good enough. Why, because for some odd reason a friend is all that I can be to that person. My thing is that bugs me is, they don't realize that, you say that you play with our emotions. That is a big slap in the face for some of us. Think about it. If you tell this type of friend that you want a guy like him or us and we are single then hello, there you go that is a slap in the face. It makes us seem that wee are not date worthy and it does hurt us whether we show it or not.
We pay attention because we care, we are there because we are truly and honestly nice. Who knows alot about you other than your girl friends? Who know what makes you happy and what makes you sad? Who knows more about you and almost every detail about you that you wouldn't even know? We do! Simply because we care and we actually take the time to pay attention to what you have to say and want. Why wouldn't we be the right person for you? The thing is many girls say that they don't want ot ruin or hurt us. The thing is, we may be sensetive but, we're not that easily hurt by that. The only way someone can ruin it is by either, cheating, saying hurtful things, or abuse. Other than that, there is no way it can damage a relationship or a friendship.
Ladies, remember that the nice guy who takes the time to listen to you and drop everything he is doing just for you is the person you should look at. Give us a try, we know that we can make you happy. As a boyfriend, we will still listen to you when you have problems and we also will help you through those tough times. We care about you and we will never go. We will always be by your side