Legends of the White Guy
Yellow Fever. Asian Fetish. These debatable ideas are most commonly associated with white males who have a sexual preference for Asian women. Some guys have it, other guys don’t. I refer to white males for a reason only because you don’t hear a lot of women with a fetish for Asian men. How often do you really hear women craving for some Asian dick? Exactly. Not too many.Yellow Fever. Asian Fetish. These debatable ideas are most commonly associated with white males who have a sexual preference for Asian women. Some guys have it, other guys don’t. I refer to white males for a reason only because you don’t hear a lot of women with a fetish for Asian men. How often do you really hear women craving for some Asian dick? Exactly. Not too many.
I was at work watching an interview with porn star Nic Wilde. Out of his entire interview the only thing that I distinctly remembered was his love for Asian women.
“Ya, and it doesn’t hurt that the girl I’m working with is smokin’. I’ve always wanted to have sex with an Asian woman. It’s been a fantasy of mine. There’s something about them that is so exotic,” he said.
Exotic? I was immediately turned off. Of course he would say that. He’s a porn star.
I once dated a guy who had an Asian fetish. I didn’t pick up on it right away. He seemed like your Average Joe Regular- cute, funny, and charming. It was lust at first sight. But I was fooled by the tip of his iceberg. My first suspicion should have been the all-Asian party that I met him at. He wooed me with sweet words, a dance, and a free drink. After that we started going on several dates. I started to pick up on little things during the first night we went out. For dinner he suggested that we go to a Thai restaurant. I didn’t suspect anything at that point. Who doesn’t like Thai food? Later that night we met up with some of his friends and grabbed a couple of drinks. We ended up at bar called “Yellow” in Chinatown. The name gave it away. Obviously.
It skeeves me out to think that a guy I’m dating was mainly attracted to me because of my ethnicity. I never understood the fixation for one specific race. But lately, I’ve been starting to think differently.
I looked around and everyone there was Asian. He stopped by the bar to say hello to the owner who gave us free bottle service. Apparently, he’d been here before. A lot. I figured it was our first date so I shouldn’t make any judgments yet. On our second date we went back to Chinatown for dim sum. The subject of past relationships came up.
“So you’re Filipino, right? My last girlfriend was Filipino,” he said.
“Oh?” I replied.
I was confused. I wasn’t sure how to respond. Was he trying to find something in common to share? What was he was trying to get at here? With more investigation, I found out that his past relationships were with a Chinese and a Korean girl. I was convinced. He was diagnosed with Yellow Fever. That was the last time I saw him.
It skeeves me out to think that a guy I’m dating was mainly attracted to me because of my ethnicity. I never understood the fixation for one specific race. But lately, I’ve been starting to think differently. As I started dating more guys, my dating circle began to grow and so did my curiosity. My first boyfriend was Filipino; the second was half Japanese, half Italian; my current boyfriend is white. Well, Irish to be more technical. Tyghe, my current boyfriend, is the epitome of your typical white guy. He loves sports. He lives and breathes for football. He plays in a rugby league. You can catch him in front of the TV watching Sunday and Monday night football all season long. His wardrobe consists of anything Abercrombie and flip-flops. And, his face is covered with freckles. If that doesn’t scream “white guy,” then I don’t know what does.
Dating a white guy has always piqued my curiosity. I never understood my reasons for wanting to date, not someone who was just white, but someone out of my race. I’ve always wondered, “Would the sex be any different?”, “Is it really that much better?”, or “How large would their dicks be?” Questions like these never crossed my mind when I was dating Asian guys. Does this make me guilty of the same thing that I blame white guys for? Guess so. In my case it would be the Reverse Fetish-ism as my friends would put it- an infatuation for white guys. Is this what guys with Asian fetishes think about? How kinky we are in bed? How tight our pussies are? Are we submissive? Do they think that me really love them long time?
Dating a white guy has always piqued my curiosity. I never understood my reasons for wanting to date, not someone who was just white, but someone out of my race.
A part of the reason why I’m more inclined to date someone who’s not Asian is because of the tall tales my mother would tell me about men out there. While most Asian parents encouraged to date inside their race, my mother was the exact opposite. She has built this image in my head of the ideal guy. He would sweep me away in his Lexus and take me back to his castle. Who was, by the way, white. He reminded me of a mythological creature that only existed in the land of unicorns, fairies, and leprechauns.
“Anak, make sure you date a pute (white) guy. He should be well-educated, rich, come from a good family, has a car, and has blue eyes! Don’t date a Filipino guy. All Filipino men are lazy. They’re use to be taken care of. Look at your dad! All I do is take care of him! Find someone who will take care of you, not the other way around.”
When I first told my mother I was dating a new guy she asked me a series of questions to find out whether or not he was good enough for me to date. It felt like I was taking a pass or fail quiz.
“What does he do?” she started off with.
“Insurance,” I responded.
“Where does he live?” she continued. This translated to “Does he have a car to drive you to Long Island if we want to meet him?”
“He lives in Westchester, mom”
“He lives upstate? That’s so far.” Minus one point. He was officially locationally undesirable. As I answered her questions I can see her taking mental notes in her head. Then finally the main answer she wanted to know.
“So, what is he?” my mom asked. I can hear the drum rolls going.
“He’s white.”
My mom raised her eyebrows, impressed. Bingo. I passed with flying colors. In his case, he did too. I didn’t have to specify what his nationality was because to her it was all the same. Knowing that he was white was good enough for her.
This is not to say that dating a white guy will always score me brownie points with my mother or that I only have a preference for them. There is a fine line. At this point, I realized, why should it matter? That’s because it shouldn’t. Men have their fetish for Asian women while I have mine for a guy who wears flip-flops and loves football.
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It is very sad that in every Asian community, Filipino or not, marrying into white is seen as improving one’s status in society. And marrying a white man seems to be the ticket to get into the WASP circles.
In other words there’s really no other way for Asian women to improve their social status aside from marrying or dating white men. How pathetic!
Dumb Asian women worship dumb white men and vice versa. Perfect coupling. But it’s sad how asian women are so ashamed of their own race and men that they are perceived as easy lays for desperate white men.
With a racist attitude such as yours, Asian guys should be thanking him for taking you off our hands.
I wouldn’t call it a fetish with everyone – certain cultures have attractive features that go along with physical attraction.
I have plenty of friends that desire a blond woman (I’m sure you have some friends here too). I have some friends who prefer Latinas and it seems Indian guys love pasty white redheads.
And some guys including me like Asian women – not to score one like the porn star mentioned in the column but simply for looks preference, and I particularly, for their tendency to be close to family and often very caring. I’ve dated 3 Asians (2 first gen Americans and one immigrant) and a bunch of white girls – it’s still case by case, but my bottom line is, this just makes for an interesting article and makes it seem like some big movement (watch out asian families, the white men are looking for your daughters) but in reality, most of my non asian friends (which is most of my friends) do not prefer asian women.
But I suppose all this makes for interesting conversation…
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Maybe she just wants a man with a big cock? Ever think of that?
Looks like we have Angry Asian Man posting to this article. Jealous that hot Asian girls don’t want your fug ass?
it is strange that an “asian” website would be backed by mostly white males. and that ALL the mentors are white men.
you’d think that for a website exclusively targetting asian women, that at least one of the mentors would be an asian female!? or even asian? heheheheheheh….very bizarre.
zero-credibility.
Having been born and raised in predominantly white neighborhoods, schools and college. Playing sports etc….
…I’ve found that most white men, supposedly straight, cannot exist one day without commenting on other men’s penis size.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm….wonder what that means?
And as far as asian females dating white men? Have at it….most of em are butt-ugly.
It’s all in the head.
Free your mind and all the b.s will follow
the moment an asian guy attacks white asiaphiles, asian women come to their (white asiaphiles) rescue. This is typically followed by the played out stereotypic penis-size jokes by the asiaphile white men. oh…how i’ve seen this over and over. the irony is, if the asiaphile was black, i’m sure not many asian women would not come to their rescue….obviouslly many asian females who prefer (and most of the time exclusively date) white men are insecure and have some self-loathing issues that they need to address, but we shouldn’t hate on them. we should reach out to them and let them see the truth. yeah, you might be married to a white guy, but you’re still making 40% less than your white counterpart as a college educated asian american female. get real, and be proud of your identity.
The funny thing is that Asian women feel like found a real prize if they can date a white guy who has never dated Asian before. If she finds out she’s not the first Asian he’s dated, she feels a tremendous letdown. This is just indicative of racism among Asians themselves–something far more common but not often discussed. A lot more racism occurs in Asia than anywhere else.
Im an Asian girl and date white guys. I also date Asian and black guys.. It really has nothing to do with race. It is how attracted I am to the person PHYSICALLY an MENTALLY. Race is not an issue. But all these guys on here give Asian men a bad rap such as the “Angry Asian Man” stereotype. It’s obvious YOU hate being Asian, not us girls.
Gotta love it. A website for “Asian Women” run by white men. Check out the “About Us” page on this website. All the “mentors” are white men, the lawyers are white men and the “Board of Advisors” are white men.
What a farkin joke.
Another case of White-men-kissing-their-own-asses syndrome….
What are you blind? The magazine is run by Asian women. Just because some people on the business side happen to be white men does not mean it is run by White Men. I see another Woman on the Board and oohhh an ASIAN woman on the Board as well, Keiko Aoki who is prominent among Asian and ohh god forbid, white folk…You are obviously a loser asian man who can’t get laid or your ex-girlfriend is now dating a white man.. Get over it!
is on the Board..He is totally Asian!
and Hillary latos is another Asian female. Get your facts straight b/4 you start hating on white men! Ignoramus
I am both a successful business owner and model. You would think that I would have an easy time meeting nice, attractive asian women, but I don’t. It amazes me when I go out with a less-attractive white male employee, less financially stable and less socially adroit than I, how he will garner more attention from asian females than I. Although I date women of all colors, I have learned to live with this, but I attribute it mainly to a complete and utter brainwashing.
I travel internationally to asia quite often. The brainwashing is far more apparent in asia. White people are used to advertise asian products in virtually all media platforms.
Can you imagine if here in the US, asians were seen all over on TV, billboards, newspapers and magazines in advertisements for “American” products? Ain’t gonna happen.
Asian women AND men are attractive. Don’t succumb to the brainwashing.
99.9% when you see this AF/WM mix the girl is fobby or fugly as hell and guy is dorky as hell. well at least that is what it is in cali. good looking/hot asian girls ARE dating their own kind and in some rare cases that i see more today, black guys. let the dorky white dudes and fugly asian girls love each other.
later!
this website is lame
never attracted to arrogant whte guys, never will be
obviously you did not read all the posts. so it’s okay for white guys to be angry when their fetishes are exposed? double standards can be a bitch sometimes huh?
It’s a wonder the negative self image these Asian women have. In fact I find more and more Asian men befriending and even dating whites much to my chagrin.
To think that your own features aren’t attractive because you are attracted to features of another race must be very difficult. Of course being exposed to white media presenting their image of white beauty and blindly embracing their culture is not surprising.
I often wonder what these men and women think of their parents and siblings. Do they find their parents unattractive?
Notice how the author talks about her mom and how they disparage Asian men? They generalize about how Asian men are when it’s probably just her father if he’s still around. She doesn’t even mention her father in the article so I suspect her mother probably didn’t even know who the father was. Those long nights at the bar in Manila will mess up a person’s memory.
The reason why Asian men are angry that Asian Women date outside their race is because they know they are the bottom of the barrel in the dating world. No other race wants to date them. The only chance they have with dating women is within their own race, Asian. That is why the call Asian women, “sell outs” and “whores” or whatever. Why would an Asian woman want to date these chauvanistic, unattractive, small dick losers? It’s just the truth!
You idiot. That’s the worst, most illiterate comment I’ve ever heard. If you read the article carefully, the father is no way relevant in the story. The author uses her mother as an example to support her ideas about how she prefers white dudes as opposed to Asian guys. Where did you get that crack head idea? Maybe you were the one who was left without a father figure or perhaps you’re still sucking on your mama’s tit.
Lemme guess…..”straight” white male?
The only people concerned about the size of OTHER men’s penis, seem to be white males.
Makes you wonder.
And these deviants are into penis-size and young boys. The statistics are irrefutable.
Ever go to thailand? Tons of bald, fat ugly white men molesting young children.
Although I don’t know any Asian Americans personally (although growing up I had Asian male friends), I find this to be an interesting topic. Here’s what I’ve found: WM’s, AF’s who prefer WM’s, AF’s who like both vs. AM’s, and AF’s who prefer Asian males – And the winner is…..Asian males-Asian females who prefer Asian males by a landslide!
First off, yes..this site is White male and Asian female who prefers White male ‘biased’. I don’t care if there’s a few Asian females on the board (which would counter the argument in my favor anyway). Or even if there’s an astounding 1 or 2 Asian males on the board. On every stinking blog, there’s an annoying picture of a White guy and Asian girl. Basically, a poor attempt at subliminal messaging. The reason I put the Asian female who likes both Asian and White guys and/or dates without giving attention to race, on the loser side, is because they base the issue on their personal situation. In other words, because they as an individual have no apparent discrimination, that’s how it is with ‘all’ Asian women.
Secondly, when I refer to Asian females who prefer Asian males; I’m referring to ‘the vast majority’ of Asian females. In other words, THE VAST MAJORITY OF ASIAN FEMALES PREFER ASIAN MALES. NO NATURE DID NOT MAKE A MISTAKE! I’ve noticed that there’s various websites/blogs/videos produced by White males that make generalizing suggestive comments that Asian females in general prefer White males. This is merely the same snake-like sneaky tactics we’ve been doing for over a century starting ‘at least’ with the Chinese we hired to build our U.S. railroads in not allowing them to bring their wives (needless to say in addition to that; stay away from White women). Let me ask you something; why would Hollywood rehash over and over again silly movie themes where the White man gets the Asian woman, knowing full well the movie won’t win any awards anytime soon? Why would they come up with a rehash of ‘Shogun’ with a movie starring Tom Cruise called “Last Samurai” knowing full well it will be an overall flop in the global cinematic quality perspective? Why can’t Hollywood get a bit more daring and progressive by reversing the roles? Because like pornography which ‘never’ wins awards, the ‘White man prevailing sexually’ makes money by feeding a social need. Like porno which fulfills a sexual lustful need rendering story-lines meaningless, after all these years our White dominated society needs to be fed with the cinematic theme that we prevail as objects of sexual desire.
However…the problem is not preference (some men prefer blond, some latina, some black, some Asian, etc.); the problem is that we (Euro-Americana trashdom) have created a ‘sub-culture’ of White males who not only prefer Asian females, but target the specific union of WMs’ and AF’s in a promotional affair (not the union of Whites and Asians, but White males and Asian females). Now your average White guy who posts here may not have a thing against Asian males dating White females. In fact, some probably like the idea judging from the many that bash White women (something I hate BTW). But I do believe that there are White males in power that marry Asian women, and do have a political agenda revolving around the specific union of White males and Asian females.
White men for eons have been kissing their own ass and have sold the world a bill of goods. To their credit, they’ve completely brainwashed many non-white people with their bullshit.
Why do you think the penis enlargement industry is so huge in the US?
Why do you think the topic of “does size matter” come up in almost every discussion about sex and relationships amongst White American men.
Why do you think American porn has a size standard for its performers, where dicks are significantly larger than the average white consumer. Isn’t this a little strange since the industry is run by white males, and catering to white male viewers?
Sorry, white guys, it’s not because of your dicks. If Asian women lived by MYTHS, they’d be chasing after black guys, which is clearly not the case.
My guess is; the logic behind this statement is that if you can convince yourself that the counter views to your own viewpoint are narrowed down to one person, the more likely the viewpoint is invalid?
Maybe you should follow the example of the storybook Amelia Bedelia, and take people for what they say!
And yes, I do remember taking a peek at the “About Us” feature and noticing that. It’s interesting that you mention Jews perpetuating stereotypes in Hollywood. What comes to mind is a couple of sit-coms from the 70’s, “All In The Family”, and “Sanford And Son”. They were both products of Norman Lear (Jewish) who conveniently used those shows (in the guise of “anti-racism”) to perpetuate stereotypes. Both Archie Bunker and Fred Sanford would provide the ethnic slurs, and Michael Stivic and Lamont would play the anti-racist side-kick to provide an appearance of morality. Meanwhile, the ethnic jokes still fed the racist viewers, and provided for them new racial jokes they could repeat the next day among their peers.
It kind of reminds me of some of the racist remarks Amelia Bedelia, Zen Cracker, Big White Man, etc. make in the guise of “supposedly” being “up front and honest”!
First off, thanks Media Man! And I agree with you entirely!
As far as the question: how can so many ‘non-experts’ in fields like physiology and ethnology have this supposed inside scoop on penis size in relation to race? In my opinion, I doubt very seriously this stereotype can be traced any further back than the ‘Civil Rights Movement’ era.
Our American history is pretty clear in revealing that White America used a similar form of ’emasculation’ towards Black males as we’ve been doing for years towards Asian males. ‘Emasculating’ may not be the exact right word, but it was very similar. We can see it recorded in history via very old movies on TCM (Turner Classic Movies). Black males were made out to appear completely ‘void’ of any sort of sexual attractiveness. They were made to appear as completely illiterate, cowardly, and to some degree even lacking in physical strength. Where as Hispanic men had Don Juan, and Middle Eastern men had Sinbad, there was literally ‘no’ heroic Black figures to emulate manhood/masculinity. Because White women were suppressed from revealing ‘any’ sort of sexual attraction towards Black men, it was more than likely assumed that there was ‘no’ attraction towards Black men, except perhaps from Black women.
After the drastic change that came about as a result of the Civil Rights Movement, the White liberals (who were absent prior to the movement) came out in droves to jump on the anti-racist bandwagon, giving the majority of the anti-racist attention to Black Americans. And along with the White liberal anti-racist male, overcompensating his anti-racist views in favor of Black Americans came….the White woman. When more Black Americans became high profile speakers, and more were exposed through the politics and the arts (like music), the White woman as I understand it showed up in droves. This had to be a big blow to many White male Americans who not long ago believed that a woman would never look at a Black man. Along with this phenomenon, came “the myth” about the Black male organ (however true or not true it is, I really don’t know). I won’t say the myth started then, but I’m sure it definitely escalated during this time period of many White women dating/marrying Black men. I believe this produced a greater scar than we may realize.
I believe that today every effort is being made by White America to make sure this same type of phenomenon does ‘not’ occur with Asian males becoming popular with women. That’s actually the understatement of the century. It’s extremely obvious this is the case. Although there’s a general acknowledgment regarding intelligence; there’s a denial that this could make it’s way into things like pop-cultural art because that’s an avenue that attracts many females. The last thing we want is an Asian male pop star. So there’s a general contentment with the idea of Asian male intelligence so long as it’s relegated to fields like science as opposed to fields like the arts.
Because there is such a huge fear of Asian males, the penis size stereotype has developed as a means to ‘ensure’ that Asian males never become popular like the Black male had. The very myth that developed in favor of the Black male, is now being used against Asian males in an attempt to place permanent damage against them in the eyes of White women, and any other woman gullible enough to fall for it.
You should write a paper on your research and wisdom along with humor.
Also, have you noticed that many of the advisors and mentors and even lawfirm to this website are Jewish??? Jews, as in Hollywood, are notorious for inflicting racism on other minorities, yet Jews are a minority that has obviously suffered discrimination throughout history.
How ironic that they themselves perpetuate negative stereotypes among others.
I think Media Man is the same Angry Asian Man posting the same rant over and over. Boy he sure is Angry. But guess what? You’ll always be an Asian Male, sucks to be you!
USA ALL THE WAY!!!
Jews are not white
Jews are not white
To all you dumbasses who keep asking why there is always pics of an asian girl dating a white man, perhaps it has something to do with the article? The author is dating a white guy!! Hello…get over it.!
I would think even someone like you would have to admit that the picture for this particular blog is just plain bad. It’s the epitome of cheesiness!
…By asian women,to a whole dfferent level
Connie Chungs and Michelle Malkins out there.
Its all about status, asian women are obsessed with it, most are poor from low class families but are hot thats for sure. But yeah hot can only get u sex not marriage. Must take a real dumbass, white or asian male to marry one of these women. Just date these women, treat them well, dine them wine them buy them some nice things, but if your some kind of professional from a upper crust background and shes just a hot bum and it she wants marriage, then agree to a prenup or else find someone in your own social economic class thats less hot. Dont be fools, life can be cruel.
Never have I been obessesed with my “status.” And for someone like you to to assume that all asian women are the same, is simply showing your ignorance…and possibly bitterness? Not our fault you’ve been picking the wrong “status” obsessed asian women to date…
…but Billy Dee Williams is sooo ’80s. Your observations are worthy of academic praise, but how bout some solutions?
Trash asian men and suck white cock.
Certainly an understandable request. As far as Billy Dee Williams? I have to confess I couldn’t think of anyone else. My suggestion to that would be (fill in the blank).
To be honest, I can only state what I believe White Americans should do. Or probably, more specifically, White ‘male’ Americans. I think one can get a pretty good perspective of where we (White male Americans) are at in terms of the media stereo-type situation just by reading the various responses at this site (but not limited to). The most common thing it seems is to dance around the issue by giving personal testimony by one given individual on how ‘he’ doesn’t have a fetish. Or, they may state that a number, or even most White men who prefer Asian women ‘do not’ have a fetish. Somehow, this is to render void the whole significance of illuminating the negative effects of stereotype that’s been practiced throughout American history, just by ‘one’ man’s personal testimony. And then of course, there’s the more Neanderthal worthy generalizing comments made about things ‘like’ penile length. Or, somehow there’s just flat out denial with no real rhyme or reason (often times in this situation, the tendency is to focus on Asian males being angry, etc.). Another method seems to be to admit the problem, but focus on whatever improvements may ‘have’ been made in comparison to 40 or 50 years ago. I think this is merely a method of allowing the continuance of the stereotypes by focusing on stagnant improvements.
As far as the media? I personally don’t think there’s anything ‘Area 51’ about Hollywood. I think it’s about the dollar, and they give us what ‘we’ want to see for the most part. I don’t have any inside scoop, so I could be wrong.
Our White American society on the one hand gives full ‘minority status’ to Asian-Americans, and yet uses demographics to attempt to incorporate them into our life-styles, philosophies, values, etc. While considered a racial minority, our media’s/society’s goal has been to take away their racial individuality. For instance, if we look at our movies, you will find Black and Hispanic male actors playing leading romantic roles, heroic action roles, etc. Although there are Asian males in leading action roles; they’re generally from overseas. On TV shows, you will find programs depicting Black families, and even Hispanic families. This is ‘not’ because of a lack of racist sentiment towards Black-Americans and Hispanic-Americans. It’s an issue of ‘demographics’.
The media capitalizes on their specific markets. Just as they target age groups, they target and capitalize on these racial groups. This is largely due to the fact that there are far more profound Black and Hispanic communities separate from White communities. Asian-Americans generally assimilate into White communities. There are some Asian communities; but generally specific Asian ethnic enclaves are more business districts than residential. The media has realized for instance that they can capitalize on promoting someone like Billy Dee Williams to attract Black female viewers. They haven’t seen the need to promote the Asian male equivalent to Billy Dee Williams to attract the Asian female. In reality of course, they obviously want to avoid it.
So, although Asians are considered a racial minority, they’re targeted demographically the same as Whites. It’s assumed that whatever White male sex symbol is pushed in the media, not only will he be embraced by the Asian female, he will be fully accepted by the Asian male. So, you never see TV shows depicting Asian families. It’s assumed that Asian-Americans will embrace the programs depicting White families. And if an Asian family is from overseas; they always have international channels to cater to those particular families.
This can be seen as either a ‘price to pay’ for their relative close proximity residentially, scholastically, etc. Or maybe a possible pay back of sorts. Either way, it’s a method of keeping White Americans at the top.
god you are one angry dude. Maybe if you had a girlfriend you wouldn’t care that Asian Women date other races besides Asian. LOSER!
First of all, I got a wife. Second of all, I want to point the hypocrisy of these Asian women. Their dating practice is merely another reminder of racism. Angry? yeah I am angry at the inequalities minorities have to deal with in white men dominated society (including this site it seems). Who some of these AFs are dating? Frankly, I would be very happy to see AFs date some black men, Latino men or Indian men. Why is it always white men? Have you ask yourself that question before or you just don’t get it? Why is this site only promoting images of WM/AF and no one else?
Nice insight. All site proves is racism is alive and well in the good old USA. Racism is alive and well among some Asian women now that they are the new “house N*ggers”.
BTW, this site f&$king sucks. It is a promotion of more racism. Love is not color blind. If this is representative of what Asian American should be, then we got some major issues. Looking at about us, it is obviously this site is ran by white males and bunch of Asian women “house N*ggers”.
For white men who kept bringing up penis size. Is it any wonder why white men are so obsessed with penis size? If some AFs are indeed colorblind as some have claimed, why would they date you? Shouldn’t they be dating black men? In fact, it would be awesome if that would happen. All those WM/AF couples and disparity in interracial dating just proves good old racism is very alive and well in the USA.
Also, why is it every time a black guy is dating a white female he gets death threats? It is so common these days but you will NEVER see white men promoting that in movies or on TV.
God, this site just blows. The editors here should change the site to WM/AF promotion site vs. masking it as an Asian American women site. This site is a joke.
I appreciate that!
Sun Fan: You really have no leg to stand on in your accusations. The issue always comes to a stand-still when both historical and present day issues are exposed. There’s absolutely no argument against them but to rehash the same phrases like the puppet/movie star in “Team America”, who when found he was losing his liberal audience could only mutter the words “ummmm, global warming?!” (and in this case, “you’re angry”, need to get a girlfriend/life”, etc.).
If you were to watch an old movie on TCM that depicted a Black male as afraid of his own ghost, completely lacking an ability to verbally communicate, completely lazy, etc.; whether you were appalled or found it funny you would inevitably notice the huge difference as to how we portray Black Americans in our media from back then and today. Although it’s not perfect, one can say that our media has changed considerably in regards to how we portray Black Americans. Theres certainly a big difference between your typical Denzel Washington role, and Amos And Andy. However…as it stands, we have ‘not’ changed. What our media once practiced in regards to portraying Black Americans is happening today. So when you watch an “un-politically correct” movie from the 30’s to the 50’s, you can’t really say we’ve improved. It’s not just the lack of ‘positive’ roles given to Asian males; it’s the stereotyping ‘demeaning’ roles. The problem is, our society is programmed to believe that this is ‘not’ a form of ‘racism’. Even though the vast majority of White males prefer White women, and many have preferences for women of other races, and the question of whether or not they have “Asian Female Fetish Syndrome” is not an issue, most of these people are completely numb to the existing racism being practiced in our media ‘today’. I’m sure the same held true in the early part of the 20th Century in regards to the negative portrayal of Black Americans.
Unfortunately, there’s very little sign of improvement. On the contrary, Hollywood has every intention of pushing it’s presence further into the over-seas Asian market. I believe even the relatively successful surge of imported movies from Asia into the U.S. will for the most part be kept small. For instance, when we promote Japanese pop culture in our American media, it’s certainly not Japanese cinema we push. Instead we push Anime where we can avoid the image of real life individuals. And from what I can tell being someone who never watches Anime, many of the characters bear no strong resemblance to any particular race.
If a hypothetical ‘Toto’ were to pull the curtains behind the ‘White powers that be’, and many people were to become ‘enlightened’, I think many White males in power would be extremely uncomfortable. And this would perhaps include those at this site. I dare say that perhaps some Asian females would sing a different tune as well.
To the author of this article,
It is sad you write an article like this and yet this is no mention of the colonial mentality that’s so prevalent within the Filipino community. If you don’t know what it is, you should look it up. Your mother have a serious case of it. Sadly, she has imposed her mentality onto you. All I got to say is thank god my Asian parents taught me to be proud of my culture and my skin color. I wonder what your mother would say when you have a son someday. Will be be labeled lazy because of his Filipino looks?
Another major point you failed to cover is the concept of Internalized Racism that has been exhibited by several of AF writers here. The concept that white is right is apparently strong among some females here. Of course, none of the article here examines that other than the superficial stuff.
Here are some links to discuss internalized racism:
http://www.rc.org/uer/InternalizedRacism.html
http://www.rc.org/publications/journals/black_reemergence/br2/br2_5_sl.html
It is simply pathetic to have a magazine who claims to support Asian American to spread the same tiresome images that has been used by white men to promote racism. The good old “white is right” message is loud and clear in our media and it is loud here on these pages. Thank god I know plenty of strong Asian American women who are actually proud of their culture and race vs. having the need to have a white boyfriend just to fit in.
Wonder if the asian-hating author will respond?
It’s so obvious you Asian men are jealous that the cute author would NEVER give you the time of day…You’re just not her type! Get over it and get laid.
Sun Fan – you are exactly what’s wrong with the Asian community.
While some guys are no doubt mad at some of these women for selling out. The problem is no one is examining the racism in this whole thing. This site merely promotes the same old stereotype that exists in the mainstream society without discussing any of the major issues that are facing Asian Americans today in dating. By creating articles like this, it simply will pit Asian men and women against each other and the white racists will win.
Some of the most racist men I know are the ones in interracial relationships. You might want to listen to some of these guys when the camera is not on them. I have heard some serious racist stereotypes about Asian women. Another poster above said it right, it is that “house ngr” (Asian women) vs. “field ngr” (Asian men) thing. House ngrs all suddenly think they are better because the white racists have decide to hyper sexualized them (Asian women) vs. emasculation (Asian men). Sadly, none of any of the articles examine any of this stuff other than just superficial dating when there is so much more behind it.
As for the author, all I got to say is your mother failed you. She is the same as those white racists telling their kids black people are this or that purely based on skin color. The only difference is she got a major case of inferiority complex.
Sadly, in all my years of dating, I received far more positive comments about Asian men from non-Asian women than from Asian women. As long as Asian men keep fighting Asian women, white racists win and that’s exactly their original intention with their stereotypes.
She’s a typical butt-fugly Flip. Did you know that Flip-women have the highest ratio of out-marriage to YT?
Comes from years and years of white infestation.
http://asiancemagazine.com/dec_2007/the_cheat_sheet
Written by that same fatass fugly flip, Elisa BangwhiteDong
She either covertly or overtly worships white men, has married/divorced/dated white men exclusively. Secretly hates her own father. In fact, she is ashamed of her own father.
Thinks she is white until she looks in the mirror and is shocked to find………an ugly asian woman?!?!?!?!!??!
sorry losers but I’ve been dating a Korean America man for 9 years. The reason I respond to you idiots is because you are the reason for your own “Angry Asian Man” reputation yet you’ll sit and take shots at Asian Women from behind a keyboard. Not only is it unattractive but you are the ones with the issues not us. If my boyfriend had your attitude, I would’ve kick your ass to the curb a long time ago. Thank god my bf has a modern attitude, hot body, brains and likes that I’m an independent woman, somthing you insecure individuals can’t handle. I don’t blame the author for dating white guys.. I know my boyfriend is a rarity and you guys on here are sure perpetuating the disgusting stereotype you so rightly deserve. by the way – what are you even doing on a magazine for Asian Women? Get a life..Faggot!
so then stop posting here. No one wants you here. How do you even know if the girl is fatass? by her headshot? You obviously have the hots for her and are upset that a hot asian girl likes a white guy otherwise you wouldn’t be posting 20 times a day. Get over it..she doesn’t like you..You! are definitely the fugly one! Why don’t you show your face you coward?
This is hilariass!!!!!! I see a reality tv program:
Fight for the white
5 random asian SOWs fighting over 1 fat, bald, ugly old white loser.
Ahahahahahahahahahaah!!!!
For a website that is supposedly geared towards Asian Women, there sure seem to be a TON OF WHITE GUYS posting here.
Do white guys normally swarm to websites catering to women? Do you see white guys all over….the Cosmo website? What is bringing so many of them here? Could it be………YELLOW FEVER???
Couldn’t have said it better. Their silence speaks volumns. But then again, aren’t they all shameless in their preference for white men?
…I do find it interesting the way many (not all) Asian women stereotype Asian Men.
If a white woman dates a white man who is sexist, she stops dating sexist men.
If an Asian woman dates a sexist Asian man, she stops dating Asian men and stereotypes all Asian men as sexist pigs.
It’s tough enough as an Asian male to be stereotyped by White society without having our fellow Asian women do the same thing to us.
Why does “Lucas McCain” pretend to be a White man?
Anyway, it seems that the only interracial coupling anyone is allowed to disparage publicly — without being shamed as a blatant racist — is WM/AF.
That’s pretty curious.
But I admit to getting a kick out of all of the impotent rage in the comments.
Hate to tell ya, but paying for hookers does not count. I travel to asia on business and pathetic white guys are the joke of the day.
They can’t get laid in the States, so they have to spend money to travel overseas and pay prostitutes!!!! LOFL!!
It seems as I was posting my comment just above, another of you make-believe White men was posting some nonsense.
Rpche, if you really were a White man, you wouldn’t have posted something calculated to offend Asian females.
Nice try. I’m sure the Asian females see through it, though.
You’re not “Lucas McCain,” too, are you?
You’re busy this evening.
I’m a white guy (blonde/blue eyes) and I travel to Taiwan or Korea about 12 times a year.
The women there are great. Very beautiful and very friendly, and if I didn’t have to work so much I could probably get laid by a different woman every day.
When I’m not working I usually have 2 or 3 conquests on each trip. They’re so eager to hand over their cell number or just meet me for dinner and then go back to my hotel room.
Seriously if there any white guys reading, you owe it to yourself to make the trip. They LOVE white guys. I had the same experience in Mexico once, but my work requires me to go to Asia.
I’m not trying to offend anybody, and I’m sorry if you feel that way. I was just relating my experiences from travelling frequently to Taiwan and Korea. Also, I don’t pay for hookers. I’m not into that scene, but I do pay for dinner and get the sex for free. It’s easy to meet girls there in the shopping malls and even walking on the street or the cafes and the noodle houses. You should try it sometime, they won’t bite.
Time to change this site’s title to YELLOW FEVER HAVEN. You call this an Asian American women’s magazine? This site is nothing but a haven for Asian women bananas and white males with yellow fever. Why is it these sellouts are so insecure they feel they need validations from white people just to be accepted? That’s pathetic. Get some self esteem women.
To Sun Fan – why do you insist guys here that point out the obvious of these articles because they want to date the author? Why would any Asian guy want to date someone who is insecure, have low self esteem and feel the only way to be accepted is to date a white man? BTW, you are being way generous if you think she is so cute. I couldn’t give a crap who she dates other that her articles always have those subtle digs at Asian men like there is something wrong with Asian men. It is women like this that are perpetuating Asian stereotypes because they feel accepted now cause they agree with white men’s view of stereotypes of Asians. If she wants to go drink white cum all day in private, no one would care. If she wrote articles like this for the Internet, then it become everyone’s business.
Are you really that naive?
If you must know; I’m half Italian and half Russian. As far as being Asian, there’s a possibility that judging by an old photo of a relative I’ve never met that I might have some Tatar blood. That’s about it. My advice would be that it’s a lot easier to just take people for what they say they are on the internet. If you’re wrong, it’s not your fault. This way you don’t look silly making all these speculations. I admit to taking an interest in this topic, and found this website by googling key words. I don’t know any Asian women. I don’t know anything about Asian women, nor am I particularly interested. I didn’t even read the article. I don’t think it’s interesting enough. However, I have encountered at times White males who have expressed an interest in Asian women to the point of absolute annoyance. On one occasion (the first) it didn’t last very long. This person was a friend at the time, and for a short period of time he would continually talk about an apparent ‘new’ fetish for Chinese girls. On the other occasions, they were more a permanent fixture. I’ve witnessed a co-worker married to a Chinese woman looking for Korean escorts on Craigslist during work time for instance. I’ve known people who’ve been attracted to Black women and Hispanic women. But it ‘never’ became an annoying centerpiece of conversation. I’ll tell you this flat out, many White men who supposedly love Asian women say things behind your back (in the sexist nature) that you have no idea of. They won’t say it front of you. You think Rpche is bad? And I guarantee you, a lot of White men take just as much pleasure in putting down Asian men as they do putting Asian women on a pedestal. If you think only Asian men and White women see this, your sadly mistaken.
Quite frankly, I detest people like Rpche. I can believe that he is a White guy. He’s obviously trying to stir up shit (and then play innocent). I can kind of relate to the anger (although by comparison it would add up to a tiny fraction). I’m not a jealous person perse, but every once in awhile I can recall how there would seem to be disrespectful knuckleheads who would make certain gestures at my girlfriend. Men are always going to look, but some have a tendency to cross the border a bit too far. That’s how I see people like Rpche. I can see that unfortunately, many White males have crossed over that border racially by disrespecting Asian males, and yes, I would say disrespecting Asian females as well. All I can say is, Rpche will eventually fuck with the wrong girl in Taiwan or wherever, who’s going to have the wrong boyfriend, who’s going to take exception to some self-glorifying blond haired-blue eyed jackass being over-presumptuous with his girlfriend. When you add everything up (European history, US history, the media, ignorant comments like those of Rpche), unless your head is in the sand, you have to conclude that our White majority oriented society has an illness. Our White dominated society must be so insecure to the point of sickness to be so blatantly manipulative. And yes, like it or not, the structure of this website is manipulative. I’ve seen the same shit once when I took a trip to Japan and landed in Fukuoka. I asked for a map of the city, and was given a booklet called “Fukuoka Now” which is run by some White male Aussies who are tolerated for whatever reason in that city. If you ever see the booklet, you will notice a section called “John And Yoko’s Opposites Attract”(aka “How To Get A Japanese Girlfriend”). The section has photos and illustrations of White males with Japanese females. Needless to say; no pictures of White females and Japanese males. Yes, unfortunately this type of manipulation is pushed overseas.
To all the normal people on this site, we know that you aren’t trying to offend anyone. You are just telling the truth.. It’s these Angry Asian men who can’t get ANY women who continue to come on and trash talk Asian women. They take it out on us because they believe we should only date them. They know they can’t get other women so they decide to take it out on the Asian community. If one of these Asian guys on here took an Asian women to 10 dinners and tried to paid for sex, they still wouldn’t get laid!
I must admit, I don’t like rooting for the white guy, or even someone claiming to be a white guy.
But your non-confrontational eloquence is really effective! But the white trolls and asian-white-cock-sucking-whores keep coming back for more! Have at it Lucas, m’man…
They are obviously in denial of their own self-hate and disrespect for asian men and ass-kissage of whites. Why is this so repulsive to me and other asian men?
I have a girlfriend and have no problem attracting women of all races (as many asian men), yet I am still repulsed by these women. I guess I just want to know how and why they would hate men of their same race?
It’s almost a morbid fascination…
….are particularly disturbing because I have not seen any posts by any of the Asian females here defending Asian Men.
White trolls come to an Asian American web site and call Asian Men “small dicked” and nobody says anything? WTF? If you went to a website catering to the black community and called Black Men thugs and criminals you would receive a very serious backlash from the black community.
But here white trolls are free to be racist towards Asian men and the Asian female community is largely silent.
I know of no other racial group where the women are so completely lacking in support of their fellow men. Even black females, who have to deal with a black male demographic that has a lot of problems, -exibit more support for their men than Asian women do.
When I refer to White males (or bashing as you put it), I’m not referring to my biological family members, I’m not referring to my boss, I’m not referring to the gas station attendant down the street. I’m referring to specific White males I’ve encountered in person, on the internet, and our White dominated society as a whole. It may sound harsh; but there’s no other way to put it. In fact, many White males that seem to somewhat acknowledge a societal racism problem attempt to water it down by claiming things are getting better. On the contrary, I don’t believe there’s ‘any’ attempt whatsoever to improve the problems at all. I think if anything, the intentions are to make things worse.
I’m also not implying that Asian women are sell-outs. On the contrary, from what I perceived both in my community and when I visited Japan, Asian male/Asian female couples seem closer knit. This is merely my perception though. I am however bitter towards White males who are purposely creating a racial rift. And when seeing some Asian females on the internet follow suit, I may tend to react sometimes as well.
Putting who has enough sex and who’s really what race aside, is there anything that any of us here are saying in regards to our racist society that’s not true?
I’m an Asian female and I can see this douche from a mile away…Nice try tool…Why don’t you start your own website.. I hate Asian females because I can’t get ANY women, so I’ll take it out on my own community.com
It’s obvious that neither “Lucas McCain” nor his cheerleaders are White.
Every one of “Lucas'” posts, especially the first, is the canned rant of the cranky East Asian that you can read on any number of websites where cranky East Asian males rant about White men and Asian women.
“Lucas” imagines it will lend credibility to this tiresome tripe if he poses as a White man, but no White man would say any of the foolish things that Lu posted.
Nice try, Lu.
http://www.haolehubbyclub.com/
Everyone on that entire website if butt-fucking ugly!!!!
So if you are an ugly asian woman, there is an equally ugly white man for you. Conversely, if you are a fugly-ass white man, worry not, for there is a fugly-ass asian female for ya!
AhahahahahahahaahahHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lucas Fan Club-Lucas’ Henchman (LOL! Love the names), What I do believe is evident in regards to some of the women on this site is that there’s extreme underlying bitterness. I think there’s women of all races and ethnicities that for one reason or another develop resentment towards their opposite gender. Unfortunately, by the aide of some devious men of my race, an avenue has been created for some Asian women to express their bitterness in a more sophisticated fashion (and I use that term loosely) by developing websites that appear to be intellectual and informative. And of course this gets twisted by many White males who make implications that Asian women in general prefer White males due to a very small number of Asian women who fall into these trappings. To attempt to expand or illuminate this impression these White males want to exhibit, they use pictures of White men with Asian women (apparently assuming that no one will notice it’s comedic irony). As “Not Again” rightly pointed out, there’s much more to this than what appears on the surface. As to the exact nature of why these women are bitter, I have no clue. I think there’s some White males who would be capable of understanding that there’s more to this than is on the surface (at least I’d like to think so), but prefer to shy away from the issue. However, I think there’s a number of White males like Rpche who are primitive enough in their thought to really believe the stereotypes that many are trying to create and perpetuate. I honestly don’t think Rpche is capable of bringing anything intelligent to the table.
Another thing that really stands out is the wide gap in much of the conversation. These Asian women have to stoop down to these White males’ level to present any sort of argument. This comes across as very paradoxical. When reading comments by Asian women who probably would know more about what’s really going on, and witnessing them use the same methods that White males use is quite noticeable. The method used by many White males is to avoid the issues pertaining to history and the media. They ‘have’ to because they will lose every time. So catch phrases are created like “getting laid” etc. I thought at first Sun Tan was a White male because she would stoop down to using phrases like that. And the real give-away was when she sided with Rpche who’s obviously a troll incapable of any intellectual comments. It reminds me of a kid throwing a tantrum, and how they will pick up the nearest object to hurl at the one they’re angry with. In this case, Rpche became the hurling object. The only arguments (if you can call it that) that many White males use pretty much ends at sarcastic remarks implying that one needs to get a life, get laid, etc. They can’t take it any further than that either because their sarcasm is being used to evade the real issues, or they simply are not intellectually capable. And again, as to witness some of these Asian females have to stoop to this level is very noticeable.
“but {no White man} would say any of the foolish things that Lu posted.”
So now you’re an expert on White men. What can I say? I’m honored to be considered one of the bad guys! And yes I most certainly have gleemed from various websites you’re probably referring to. In fact I’ve gleemed from some of the Asian males who have posted various information on this website. I’m pretty sure “Not Again” is one of them. I’ve also formulated some of my own opinions. I think those websites scare you. If you had it your way, and all the comments that scare and anger you were to just magically go away, then the internet could truly be used as a tool to worsen the racist problem you and some others wish to perpetuate. Then more propaganda oriented websites like this can go uncontested. Fortunately, the comments you want “to go away” keep coming, and the truth is being made manifest more and more.
There’s actually a number of very informative non-confrontational information in the form of blogs and websites that confront many of these issues discussed here. However, whether it’s the intention of the authors to target the information to non-Asians or not, the topic is of no interest to your general White guy. To paint a hypothetical picture, but broad enough in it’s context to assume it’s relative accuracy, This is where the internet works against websites like this, and those that support them. White guy wants to find an Asian dating service. He ‘googles’ Asian women, or Asian fetish, and runs into a link discussing Asian fetishism from a negative stand-point. He goes to said website, blog, or discussion forum with the idea of boasting his White privilege (yes, I have no problem with this phrase). Or, he sees a website created by an Asian male who uses an ‘angry’ Asian man/men theme. Because it portrays an ‘angry’ theme, The White guy out of curiosity links to said website with the idea of making accusations of envy, and further boasting his White privilege. However, said website as it turns out is equally as informative as a more confrontational textbook type website (except in a different format), and without him knowing it is being exposed to the truth (again, whether it’s by the intention of the author or not). I think this bothers you to no end.
And BTW, way to dodge my question Sun Fan. I’ll try it again:
IS THERE ANYTHING THAT ANY OF US HERE ARE SAYING IN REGARDS TO OUR RACIST SOCIETY THAT’S NOT TRUE?
Did that more or less present the question a bit more clearer?
To Rpche – Don’t pat yourself too hard there. Any guy with wallet of cash can get paid in any country. In 3rd world countries, it is even easier. I have been to poor white countries and let me tell you it is easy to get a check. Don’t get hurt complimenting yourself there too much, it really is not that difficult. Besides, this issue is way more than just sex and getting laid.
To Sun Fan – What is your obsession with getting laid? You just don’t get it do you? I have dated hundreds (yes, hundreds) of women and lost count how many times I got laid in my life. I have dated most non-Asian women as well. What is the big freaking deal about getting laid? Yet like the guy above, I can’t stand AFs like ones on this site. They are simply repulsive. It is like they are walking insult to Asian Americans cause they don’t mind degrade themselves just to fit in with racists whose only purpose in life is to fulfill their sick fetishes. You really don’t have a clue do you? You think this is just about sex? You sure are clueless. BTW, I doubt you are going out with an Asian guy. The way you talk you sound like this author.
Lucas – again thank you for the comments. I think you get it. This is about white privilege and racist white males that have set up a racist system to benefit them. Yes most white men are extremely insecure with themselves. If they are, they won’t resort to creating negative stereotypes of minority men of all races in all the media etc. Your answer is right on and I am glad there are white people who are not racists on this earth and who actually see this for what it is vs. the superficial crap this site keep feeding people.
Lucas, you almost convinced me that you were a white male but now after your next 3 posts bashing white men and basically calling Asian women sell-outs I’d say nice try. And I am dating an Asian Man. Not that I need to prove it to you, just to prove to everyone else that you are complete moron. And yes it is about sex..everything in life all goes back to sex in some way shape or form.You angry asian men! Stop posting here. You guys are so annoying and are making it bad for the great Asian guys out there. You are so bitter about being an Ugly Asian Man becuase if you could actually get chicks, this would not be an issue!
1. usa: located in all the major cities and backwoods.
2. philipinnes: years and years of yt infestation.
3. japan: see above
4. china: resisted for eons, but now caving into white cock.
5. korea: see above
6. thailand: outwardly caters to yt
7. vietnam: see above
I just wanted to add that if you go for Asian women, go for the FOB (fresh off the boat) variety. They are unspoiled and retain their culture as opposed to the Americanized variety who are spoiled and have a sense of entitlement that makes them completely unbearable. Like many of my friends say: “American women are great for sportf*cking but make lousy wives”.
This was a brilliant and well-written article.
Your honesty is appreciated.
I dated all kinds of women and what is funny to me is that the people who whine the loudest about racism, also whine the loudest about mixed race marriages/dating. I caught more crap from black males when I dated a black woman. Some of them even had white girlfriends. I married my wife cause I met her, we had many similar interests, such as museums and reading etc. We dated off and on for 3 years before we realized we were meant for each other and have been married for 31 years with 6 kids and 14 grandkids. All you bigots from all races can kiss my white ass. Why don’t you start the Asian KKK, bet that would make you happy.
JAWGMTAAW: You’re like a man who while the neighbors were gone burned their house down. When coming home to find your house burned down cried “Arsonists”! It’s interesting that you refer to Black women. Let’s look at a bit of history. No doubt you’ve heard of the “Tragic Mulatto”? There’s different variations of the term, but it points to an era when mulatto women were seen as ‘exotic’ by White men. Because of the ‘one drop rule’ they never lost their status as being ‘Black’. Instead, class distinctions were made. Lighter skin Blacks were considered a higher class than darker skin Blacks. Beautiful light skinned Black women (Mulatto), because they were sexually desirable to White men, were bred and sold to White slave owners. This way, they were never at an equal ‘White’ status. Today, we have a somewhat similar situation with White men and Asian women. I’m not referring to isolated instances where true love is involved, but on a large-scale societal level. There’s no intention of removing Asian Americans from ‘minority status’ (including Asian women), so in many cases Asian women become ‘trophies’. Notice how there’s always such a strong emphasis for a White man to proclaim “My (Asian) woman”, or “I married an (Asian) woman”. The strong distinction of the woman being “Asian” will never leave simply for being a human or fellow American. When many White men put down White women, they will often use terms like ‘Western’ or ‘American’ women vs. (Asian) women. They fail to distinguish between American Asian women and overseas Asian women because in many cases it’s not an issue. The fact that an Asian woman is just as American as the White woman is somehow not an issue as well. The term ‘Western’ women or ‘American’ women is probably a slightly more PC way of saying ‘White women’.
Also, the idea that whatever assumed qualities exist with Asian women as a rule ‘must not’ be attributed to good qualities pertaining to Asian male upbringing. Instead, the idea needs to be presented that the assumed qualities are a product of trials and tribulations of being subject to an oppressive Asian male domineering society. And perhaps enhanced by gratitude of being rescued. Basically, “Just a guy married to an Asian woman” is using his marriage as a form of attack! However good or bad his marriage really is, it’s not enough unless it’s a statement of sorts ‘against’ Asian men that are not conforming to his specifications.
SOMEONE PUT THE LIGHTS OUT. PLEASE.
All I have to say is the same Asian guys who keep posting to this website can NOT get any chicks, otherwise they would go on with their happy life and not give 2 craps about who Asian women are dating.. Happy New Year!
All I have to say is you guys are an embarassasment. I can see why you guys are lonely, insecure, losers, how pathetic can you guys get. If you dont have anything positive to contribute to society just move to China or where ever it is your family comes from. I dont blame the Asian females for wanting to date white guys, matter of fact I encourage it. Atleast thier children will be better for it. Asian females stay strong and dont let the Asian guys bring you down. Keep dating whoever you want in 2008. Much Love from a Hapa.
Your post reminds me of a wise comment that was made in a previous post by a couple of individuals. The comment was in reference to the Black “House Slaves” and “Field Slaves” in our early history. To possibly add to their comment, what would happen is the “House Slaves” would often flog or rebuke the “Field Slaves” in the hopes that they would win favor with their masters by displaying what they perceived as ‘loyalty’. In reality, this ‘does not’ pacify White racists.
Anyone notice that all posts criticizing white men are deleted, yet posts criticizing asian men are kept?
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm….
Hmmmmm I guess that’s one way to look at it. As always I respect anyone’s point of view. Still though ,lets all try to get along regardless of race. Nothing simpler to ask for.
I am now convinced that this web site was developed by a white guy portraying himself as an Asian woman.
This is amazing that an article like this is even posted. This is a forum. So who cares that she is dating a white guy and she finds white guys as legends. Stuff like this makes me wonder who is really trying to be racist here.
Who cares about who dates whom, as it should be up to the individual to decide who they love and whom to get their grove on with! For me I love Asian women…I want to promote more same race marriages…is it wrong – NO. Is interracial dating wrong…NO. But I want to say to my fellow Asian men and women that don’t listen to this hype about mixing gene pools. Trust me there is nothing wrong with having the same gene pool. Dang, there is nothing more beautiful than an Asian women who loves being Asian.
But this garbage should not be here. This is an Asian American women site. They should be promoting Asiance, which includes more Asian men and women dating or marriage stories. ?
How would the readers of JET magazine like this article printed in their web site or magazine? Or have the ‘Legend of the Asian Man,’ printed in GQ or Detail magazine.
Reading your comments tells me that you are an Angry White Man. Seriously DUDE, you need to chill out.
Hey, be proud of who you are instead of hiding. At least these so called angry asian men are expressing how they feel, and they have the right to express their opinions. Is it right…I disagree with them.. As I love real Asian women..not one’s who are white guys acting like an Asian women.
Grow up.
No sorry not a man. I have the right to express my opinion as well.. And since I’m not dating a white guy, the girls who are as well as the author have every right to date who they want.. And honestly, they shouldn’t have to listen to your ongoing rants.. It’s getting a little bit boring! Still haven’t found a date yet I see!
Please, all guys regardless of race stop complaining. Asian females are entitled to love who ever they want. Why cant people see through race and color? I would like to belive in 2008 we are all humans habitating the same small planet Earth and shouldn’t let the color of our skin or shape of our eyes determine who we are or will be.
Long Wood – either you don’t know how to read or you have no clue what anyone is discussing here.
Funny interracial dating is all about skin color and nothing else. Have you ask yourself why in a city like NYC with so many minorities (black, Latino etc.) why only Asian women only date white men when it comes to interracial dating? If you don’t see the issue with that, then you are either a) blind as a bat b) totally clueless about the racial stereotypes of this country c) simply choose to ignore all racist images we see in the media because you are like white men who just want the status quo cause the system is set up by white men to favor white men. This is way more than just dating and sadly, this site just don’t get it.
Long Wood..funny name…is there suppose to be a meaning for this?
First totally agreed with you. I believe everyone is entitled to date WHOMEVER they want. BUT stop coming to Asian sites and starting trouble. AND there is nothing wrong promoting SAME race marriages. Whites do it all the time. AND yes some of my fellow Asian brothers complain and say things (I hope they don’t mean)to our Asian sisters, but I do understand some of their arguements here. I also agree with the post above me. Their is racism in American brother.
I LOVE ASIAN WOMEN..everything about them.
Relax GUY! Seriously, same old line about not getting a date or getting laid is old. If you are an Asian woman, I do respect you as I love all Asian women. As I stated..who cares who date who…For me I just prefer Asian women. They are beautiful, intelligent, on and on.
Peace Dude!
that’s true. but it is even easier for them, when lots of asian women prefer white men. so it is a match made in heaven. desperate fugly white men and desperate fugly asian women who seek out each other.
White men who go for Asian women do so because they cannot get White women. Asian women who date white men are dating the dregs of the white race.
Truth: White men who go for Asian women do so because they cannot get White women.
That’s absurd. White me who go out with Asian women also go out with White women. Two friends of mine who go out with Asian women are good-looking and have Ivy League degrees. They don’t have any trouble attracting women of all types.
It’s strange, though, that you guys think Asian women are some sort of consolation prize for losers.
Really strange.
I don’t see the stigma with Asian females preferance in dating white men. Matter of fact, the Asian females that I know are not as picky as white, spanish or black woman. After all I see Asian woman with all kinds of guys and it just happens to be that they date the majority of white men in this Country. It’s actually a good thing that guys love our woman so much. I guess most people are not as perceptive as I am. Asian ladies keep on doing what you are doing. Dont let the Asian man or any other man propaganda hold you down.
Promoting same race marriage is probably why so many Asian woman date outside their race. Honestly who lives by these conservative views anymore? Isn’t 2008? If someone tried to push their religous or cultural views on me, I wouldn’t have it, and I don’t think the Asian woman are either. Asian woman are just as strong as we are probably stronger. (think about were they came from)
No kidding that’s the most absurd statement I ever heard. White men who go for Asian women do so because they cant get white woman. They really must be messed up in the head. And I agree with them thinking Asian woman are sort of consolation prize. Any woman for that matter.
What!!!! Promoting same race marriage is probably why so many Asian woman date outside their race. Honestly who lives by these conservative views anymore? Isn’t 2008? If someone tried to push their religous or cultural views on me, I wouldn’t have it, and I don’t think the Asian woman are either. Asian woman are just as strong as we are probably stronger. –Dang dude, whites and blacks promote same marriages all the time. Do you watch TV or go to movies or are you just to busy surfing Asian porn. STOP using the same lines bro…I know your tactics here..Yes I agree with you about Asian women…they are beautiful, intelligent, strong, etc..your preaching this to a man who loves his Asian women. Go ahead a date Asian women, but STOP coming to ASIAN sites and starting trouble…Why do so MANY white guys do this? Can you answer me this.
First of all I’m a hapa Who never dated an Asian woman because most Asian woman I knew dated White guys. Im married to a 3/4 asian 1/4 white girl though.
I am proud to white married to a Filipino with two kids.
So sick of the other races putting my down. GROW UP!
There is nothing wrong with my skin color.
There is nothing wrong with being black,mexican,asian or whatever the hell you are. It’s all in the attitude of the person, and what is in their heart!
GROW UP PEOPLE!
….but you sure as hell ain’t literate….
Who cares dude. Get out of here and stop posting this shit on Asian forums/blogs/websites. You are a typical white guy that always start shit like this. I am proud of you that you are married to lovely Filipino lady and have two beautiful children. But this is not a place to rant your comments.
i used to wonder why i was fascinated with asian, or dark haired woman. seemed mysterious and would hold my gaze (if i could get away with it) forever.
then i realized that it is just curiosity (as my family is white/blond) and the habit of projection. in other words, the mystery is not in the woman but in my mind.
watching a science show i learned about DNA and how genetics seek out diversification. eg diversification good, inbreeding bad.
so underlying curiosity and other social impulses such as “it’s taboo” is genetic drive. joking with a filipino gal friend of mine recently about my dismal relationship, she said that i just wanted a baby doll at home. it’s true. i want a little sex kitten. if she came with little brown buns that would be just fine but a blondie would do as well. it’s all about relationship rather than fetish for me.
but i am older and may have not realized then back in the younger years.
Based on her body of columns, this individual is a complete joke, constantly making self-racist generalizations about men of her own race while bending over backwards to ignore or explain away the faults of her White Prize.
If you read her posts it’s clear she’s an Uncle Tom, self hating, White worshipping individual who will say or do or think anything to make her worldview work for her, without any honest introspection. She has internalized ‘White is Right’ mentality common among post-colonial minorities.
To be honest, I’d rather some poor Asian guy not have to deal with her, she is a basket case.
This is the sad irony in the Asian community (if Asian community do exist). A magazine about Asian women bent on stereotype their other half to fit in to white society.
this magzine should be complete shut down and burn to the ground, asian women like you should be aborted immediately by their asian father to prevent this stupidity
I’m half Thai, and where I live there aren’t many Asian people. Add that to the fact that I am an American, raised in America by my white American father. I see myself as American and I see that I am surrounded by (mostly white) Americans. I see white men, more than any other race, portrayed in the media as viable relationship material. Go figure that I have almost exclusively dated white men my entire life. When once I dated a Korean man, he confessed that he was attracted to fair-skinned red heads.
He was one of maybe three Asian men, in my appropriate age range, I have EVER met in my town. So I find the many derogatory remarks about Asian women dating white men incredibly offensive.
welllll, interesting topic to say the least, look at all the comments! i would like to point out in asian culture as we know, having dark skin is associated with working in the fields, its looked down upon, especially with southeast asians, ughh, who are high up there on the ass kissing to w hite people, chinese korean and japanese tend to be more nationalistic, but of course there are many of them who are in awe of whites too. i think alot of it has to do with what is different, whites may be seen as exotic to some asians, vice versa, but i think the biggest attraction by far is money or percieved wealth, especially in southeast asia, poverty and sexism and social status of women in asian countries all come into play 2. i think in the future the whole thing will die down and asians will turn more towards their original cultures, once they find out that dating white is just dating another person, in 20 years all the marriages based on wealth and status would have disintegrated, alot of the hapa kids will be disillusioned with their identity and you will see a ressurgence in pride. btw, im not saying ALL asians are this way, many asians love their own cuisine, culture and language of course, i am not also targetting the asians/whites who just happened to meet and fall in love and thats it, normal relationships, i am talking about the trend in dating white men.
Everybody has their physical preferences regarding the opposite sex, whether that be a black guy of medium-build, a short, chubby white guy or an asian guy with a great smile 🙂
Everyone is different, and being sexually attracted to someone who looks a certain way is not, in my view, racist.
I guess that leaves more asian cock for us white girls….cheers!
Sigh – just another essay by Elysia showing her naivety.
It’s not a “white guy†characteristic to love sports – black guys, Asian guys (whether they are Asian-American or in Asia), etc. love sports as well.
Heck, you can’t tear me away from the tube when my alma mater plays on Saturday and when my pro team plays on Sunday (not to mention that on the weekends, I usually reside in jeans/shorts, a tee, baseball cap and flip-flops – oh, gee, I must be “specialâ€).
Frankly, it seems that you have a bit of a self-esteem/identity issue – in no small part contributed by your mother’s attitude.
“Everyone is different, and being sexually attracted to someone who looks a certain way is not, in my view, racist.â€
Tia – think why Elysia (as well as pretty much all other Asian-Americans, male or female) partner w/ whites – and not black, non-white Hispanics, etc.
Race is very much a part of the equation.
Asian guys: don’t complain. You all love white women too. When was the last time you all dated a Latin chick?
Every country is experiencing this. Even in Japan there is increasing number of mixed marriages. Who’s to say right or wrong, it just happens
http://japansugoi.com/wordpress/japan-becoming-a-more-mixed-society/
Hello to all to are posting on the topic. I am a 29 yr old black male who want to gain some insight on interracial relationships between asian women and non asian men and how they go through ups and downs in their relationship. I read the article and although the topic is about “the legends of the white guy”,I noticed that there were some posters getting pissed (read: in some posts, royal ape $#!+) about asian women dating white men. To my angry asian brothers who felt like they got disrespected by those asian women and hear the crap that some white dudes talk about asian females, don’t let that get you down. if you hear some a-hole trashing talking asian women and you step up and defended their honor, ( or in fact any dude who checks another dude for showing disrespect towards any women in general, you showed that YOU are a man and got a higher mindset than those idiots. Asian women, I’m not dissing you on who you date, but if a asian man (or any man steps up to defend your honor as a woman,), show that guy some love. To all the posters that have a problem with interracial dating, please F*$% off, because you are not showing no level of class or coolness. Any way those are my comments on the topic I have questions for the asian ladies: If you did date or are dating or married to black men, please tell the posters what attracted you to them. Doesn’t have to be just sexual, just share what additional qualites you like about that that black male. Also if any of the ladies in the asiance sex and the city are reading please tell us your experiences in dating or marrying black men. Thanks for letting me post and I hope to read the responses.
Hi Brandon, Thanks for commenting. I read your post. I’ve never dated a black man but I am working on my next article which is about all the NYC men I have met at the various Christmas parties I have attended this year. I will say this though about the black men I’ve met: They have always been very respectful upon first meeting. I don’t know about relationship wise because a few of my friends dated black men and they all turned into pigs, cheated etc. Not to say white men, asian men don’t do the same thing. Read my recent article. My point is most black men that I’ve met in NYC have always been very gentlemanly and respectful..definitely more so than some of the white men I’ve met. I’m a very Americanized Asian girl. That’s all I have to say for now. I hope you read my next article.
Hi Nancy! Thanks for posting back. I glad to hear that all black guys or guys in general you came in contact with were not ignorant jerks to you and your girlfriends. I made that post due to the fact that there are rising numbers of af\bm couples and also bf\am couples in the US (including the southeast) and also the social groups for those couples on the net. I will admit, when I was a freshman at a two year college, I did have the “yellow fever” since I saw some beautiful japanese women staying on campus. As I got older and moved on in my college years, I mentally grew up and realized that as a black man who wants to date asian women, it WILL NOT be always about the sex. These ladies are real women, facing real life and deserve much respect (This includes all women in general.):). Right now I’m not in a relationship with a asian woman but I would not mind being in one since Asian American women, like all women in general, are speaking loudly in not just what they want in relationship and sexuality conversations, but in life generally. To your friends that got burned by black guys while dating, First of all, as a black man allow me to apolgize for the crappy-@$$ed way they got treated, for those chumps dont deserve any smart, strong, independant women like your and your friends since they want to one-up their egos. Not all black men are like that and if they acted that foolishly, they deserve to be placed on a do-not-date list, pics included, ;). I will look forward to your next post and please encourage asiance
readers to tell about their experiences with black men or any guy( hey it is a free country to date who you like):) and drop some knowledge on us opened minded guys who want to hear what the asian american women have to say about the dating and relatioship scene. Peace and bleassings to you, your friends and family and all the asiance staff.
PS: Encourage any of the asiance female editors and staff to talk about their experiences too, if they are ok with it:)
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-9142171923095749295
Check out this documentary. It explains why asian women want to be white.
http://www.vimeo.com/4273363
This is the TRUE Legend of a white guy. Watch the video.
That video is hilarious. Are you sure that is a man? Looks like he has a vajayjay. I’m surprised the police did not call for backup. That looks like it could have gotten really bad like a riot or smthing. He deserved to be tasered!
We’re always afraid our parents won’t approve us dating with some random guy so we always try to find a guy they would like. In most cases, he has to be of the same nationality, skin color and religion.
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Bingo lottery
this is what happens when creepy asian fetishes get even creepier.
http://www.documentary-log.com/d14-guys-and-dolls/
What a tragedy!! A Filipino mother with an Asian inferiorty- white supremacy complex. Poor girl! The system of Racism ( white supremacy) is GLOBAL.. you will find non-white people round the globe, who are actually the MAJORITY, buying into the great white lie, that white people are superior or better, instead of working to DESTROY THE SYSTEM of racism(white supremacy) and replacing it with a system of justice.
If you worked to destroy that system, there would not be the disparity in resources between white people and non white people, who actually make up the MAJORITY of the world’s population. White people are only about 8% of the global population.
By having sex with white men, though you are oppressed and colonized under their unjust system, which gives them advantages they have NOT earned, you affirm that you are inferior to them and worthy of subjection. You affirm to them that they are entitle to have the women of every non-white population they colonized.
I am not an Asian and it totally disgusts me to see Filipinos in my area with brown arms and pink faces from skin bleaching.
How did Filipinos begin to “integrate” with white people?
COLONIALISM!! Spaniards & Portuguese came with VIOLENCE AND THE SWORD..destroyed your religions and forced you to take on theirs, raped you, mated with you, gave you his language ( which is why I hear Spanish words right with Tagolog & had lots of Filipino friends with NON Filipino names) and his little crucifix idols so that you see the “son of God” and therefore “god” as a white male….
Take your right minds back Asians.
Signed,
An AFRICAN woman.
@ “AFRICAN woman”. As much as it is totally unfair for the OP’s mum to judge her value based on the race she dates, your assumptions are not so nice either. During colonisation, ‘white’ people were also oppressed by other ‘white’ people. Take Ireland, for example. Not only did Britain oppress Ireland, but “Irish females were forced to be raped by African men to create more profit in the slave trade”- http://dearricky.xanga.com/699654488/the-realities-of-white-oppression/ And then, there is the murder of six million oppressed Jews…
Murdering, raping, oppression and racism are terrible things to enforce on other human beings. Telling someone who they can/can’t marry, where they can/can’t work, which bus they can/can’t ride o,n who they can/can’t have sex with based on race…well, isn’t that promoting racism?
King Tut, an Ancient Egyptian Pharaoh, was believed to have been biracial~ both ‘white’ and ‘black’. So, it’s untrue that interracial marriage means loss of power.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080726232257AAdRsJl
The son of God was supposed to have come from Israel, so chances are that he had a tan. There are many different depictions of how people think that Jesus would have looked:
http://www.rejesus.co.uk/site/module/faces_of_jesus/P2/
http://mormonmatters.org/2009/02/01/the-symbolic-image-of-christ/ It would be a mistake to assume that all ‘white’ people are Christian.
I agree that in the Philippines there are women with beautiful brown skin, and there are ‘white’ people who will purposely tan themselves using a chemical spray products which may cause them things like cancer, or lie under the sun, which may cause skin cancer as well, to try and achieve a similar look. Does that make you feel sick too, or is it just Filipino women that want to acheive a particular look that makes you feel sick?
It is undeniable that there are racist ‘white’ people. There are racist people from every ethnicity. If you let them have power by becoming racist too then the problem only escalates in their favour.
Ladies: It doesn’t matter what race you marry because you will be taking care of the man for the rest of your married life together. When you say, “I do,” that means you will be doing the cooking, the dishes, the grocery shopping, the laundry, the cooking, the child care, etc. and of course, the husband if you have any energy left.
I absolutely do not approve of this guy’s actions, but sheesh, what unnecessary force used by the police.
And everyone just stands by while the guy gets a taser repeatedly to the chest (exactly where his heart is – very deliberate) and – can you believe this – the back of the head?
What a police state.
“Look at your dad! All I do is take care of him!”
I had a good laugh over that comment. I love the information here about the mother – it’s both funny and sad at the same time. Good men (and women for that matter) are found across racial, economical, social and spiritual boundaries. Who says you have to be a certain color? Who says you must have a certain job or car? Who makes the rule that says he who doesn’t rub elbows with money is a loser?
I myself have worked very hard in my life, and even that wasn’t good enough for my wife and (especially) her family – and she was from America. People need to realize that real love is what’s important, not money, status, or color. True love is keeping your wedding vows to your partner, everyday, with passion, and for the rest of your life.
I pray to God that I find a woman who believes that as much as I do, and when I find her, I don’t care about her social status, race, or money. I wish we could all be this way.
hahahhahaa! That video. omg that is the tiniest dick I’ve ever seen!
Fabulous post. I love your points here especially men who thinks more of ethnicity rather than deeper meaning of it.
what you said made no sense. What “I” do or don’t do has no effect on someone “becoming” racist. And for starters, this lady wasn’t trying to deny the holocaust or anything she was just making a point.
I skimmed your first blog. Explain to me how Irish women were forcibly raped by African men? Do you have any idea how much money and logistics it would have taken to transport thousands of African slaves to Ireland? It just wouldn’t have been worth it!
Make sense man, or don’t talk at all!
THANK YOU!!!! I’m an Asian guy and I always try to point these things out to my cousin (Who’s in a similar position as this girl).
FYI my girlfriend is African American so aside from personal experience, I know exactly where you’re coming from. Why can’t there be more intelligent women just like you?
White guys prefer white women. Asian girls are the last resort for white men. Read the comments here about what white guys really think of asian women:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQ8xDSEqzto
If that was a hot asian girl that would never had happened.
Excellent analysis!!! Thank you.
The author obviously watches too much porn and has this distorted view of reality. She really needs to stop bashing Asian men and making these erroneous generalizations because it only makes look stupid and ignorant.
Hahaha so true!! When I’m at a bar and horny, I’ll usually try to chat up a white girl or latina first. If it’s getting close to closing time and I’ve struck out all night, there’s always a asian chick with a white fetish ready to come home with me.
Ladies: It doesn’t matter what race you marry because you will be taking care of the man for the rest of your married life together. When you say, “I do,” that means you will be doing the cooking, the dishes, the grocery shopping, the laundry, the cooking, the child care, etc. and of course, the husband if you have any energy left.
That is not entirely true. Thanks Debbie Downer.
Just wait til you get married someday… someone has to take care of the house & kids unless you marry a rich guy who can afford to hire a maid, a cook & a nanny or have your mommy come do it for you.
IGNORANT!
I should not say this but Elysia your mom sucks, BTW I’m not asian
You are a kind woman who understands the concept of preference.
It is an unfortunate truth, that race does have an affect on physical appearance, and men will approach you, if he does not know you, based on physical appearance.
someone has to take care of the house & kids unless you marry a rich guy who can afford to hire a maid, a cook & a nanny or have your mommy come do it for you.
its official yellow fever.is a myth.. When clearly from reading most stories on here and other blogs. I would say Asian women are obsessed with any man of European decent who sports an fair complexion. I can never understand this coming from most Asian.woman. In Puerto Rico we love all our men regardless race skin color etc. Hate to sound bias but I noticed asians native and foreign hold white skin and people in high regards, is this true? Why continue this frame of thinking that is so third world. Furthermore would you agree its non-progressive in a former slave state, Dios mios …
its official yellow fever.is a myth.. When clearly from reading most stories on here and other blogs. I would say Asian women are obsessed with any man of European decent who sports an fair complexion. I can never understand this coming from most Asian.woman. In Puerto Rico we love all our men regardless race skin color etc. Hate to sound bias but I noticed asians native and foreign hold white skin and people in high regards, is this true? Why continue this frame of thinking that is so third world. Furthermore would you agree its non-progressive in a former slave state, Dios mios …
That’s so true, white men have to charge with the stigma of yellow fever, but to be honest ÄLL asian women have “vanilla fetish
ridiculous analysis….
I date whatever turns me on. But according to you… the white girl, whether nasty looking or not is always the better catch to a white guy compared to the asian girl. Fuck that!
I Personally Prefer Asian Woman Over All Other Nationalities~~~ Would I Call It Yellow Fever~~~ Probably Not~~~ Maybe Just A Minor Cold~~~ We Have Plenty Of Colors To Choose From~~~ Be It White,Yellow,Brown,Pink, Or Orange~~~ Ok~~~ Maybe Not The Pink And Orange~~~ Wow~~~ Could See It Now~~~ Orange Fever~~~
So, what colour would you associate with my gal Liss Liss?
I would not classify Herby as a fetisher.Your probobly just jealous that he wont throw you a bone. Im a asian woman and love his hippy looks. He is very intelligent and im sure he could find any woman that he wanted. If you ask me its kind of sexy that he is waiting for something special. Ive seen his products on E-bay and im sure he is rich and lives a wonderful life. And just love his admiration towards liss liss.
Another Kid Hiding Behind His Or Her Words~~~ Too Funny~~~
HaHa phony, you are probably Herbysan posting as Anonymous to flatter yourself. Again no woman white, asian, black, hispanic, indian finds him attactive posting too much here and not getting it in the real world.
You Have Issues My Pet~~~ And Even If I Didn’t Find Someone Special In My Lifetime~~~ I Will Keep My Beliefs Strong~~~ And Whos Anonymous Here~~~ Your Hiding Behind Your Words~~~ Show Yourself~~~ I Will Be Nice To You~~~ Might Even Send You A Personal Check To Pay For Your Dr. Visits With Your Psychiatrist~~~ Hows That Sound~~~ Its Not To Late For You~~~ I Promiss~~~
I’m Neither Rich Nor Poor~~~ Just A Simple Guy That Makes Solar Powered Bird Houses Is All~~~ Work Maybe 2 Hours A Day~~~ I Do Lots Of Sleeping~~~ 10-12 Hours Every Night~~~ That Leaves Me Plenty Of Time To Enjoy Hours Of Asiance~~~ Work Hard In Life And You To Can Enjoy Your Passions In Life~~~
Thats A Tuff Question~~~ When Looking At Liss Liss I See Multiple Bright Colors~~~ Colors That Sparkle~~~ Colors That Only Few have Seen In There Life Time~~~ Kinda Like Looking At A Bright Colorful Rainbow In The Distance~~~ Or An Alaskan Aurora That Makes Your Mouth Hang Open In Disbelief~~~
Fetisher. That is why no white or asian woman are with you now. LOL!
So lame that this guy incesscantly posts his wierd manifesto and desires. Nobody wants to hear it and his face and comments scare alot of people.
Sorry I Bother You So Much~~~ Just Having Fun Is All~~~ I Will Cut Things Back A Little With My Posts~~~ I Know Its You Marisa Sung~~~ Bashing People From Time To Time~~~ Relax A Little~~~ Enjoy What Brings A Smile To Your Face~~~
Herby, you may be correct….Marisa had a real hard on for Melissa Lee….so everytime you mention LissLiss the hair on her neck stands up. It’s a good thing Marisa went into the Witness Protection Program!
Sexual violence in speech.
This is to Asian American men who read this…
Many of you have had difficult times in your life… very difficult ones, I’m sure. If you’re reading some posts of my past, you know we share this. Resist any inclination to run comparisons that serve to hurt you, trying to compare whose pain was worse. If you’re questioning whether you are justified in feeling how you do from social sexual injuries, You are justified. Sexual injury, this is injury to you at the core. That is violent, painful.
I am trying to reach out to people to say it’s okay to say,
I am being sexually injured socially, please stop, it hurts.
I was inspired to do something very out of character for me. I’m otherwise fairly private. No Facebook, no Google+, no Twitter, no Tumblr, and no Skype outside of work. I thought that maybe people out there wanted something else to read besides the junk narrative persuading our minds to fear others and protect ourselves.
I’m talking to everyone reading who feels they have had sexual pain in their lives in any way inflicted by society. I’m telling you that you’re absolutely justified in your extreme feelings. Sexuality is a sacred self, and you’ve protected it. But times are changing. Voices are changing. More people speak now with support. We are all together creating the social space for your expansion. So if you’d like a safe place to speak your mind, you can do so here anonymously. There will be support for you.
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